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Can I have a Scentsy vent here?

I'm going to try and make this short but no guarantees....

Here's the story:

My sponsor Debi is also my director (and Pam's).  She's awesome.  Then there is a lady we will call J.  J got upset at Debi for not sending her a welcome packet like she did for some others when she signed up.  Debi just started doing them ( I didn't get one either or anyone else in the last 5 years).

Things escalated and Debi contacted the Scentsy CFO who authorized a transfer for J to under me instead of under Debi.  J got mad at me when we went to convention because I didn't take the time to come to her hotel room.  Um, when was there time for that?

We skyped, made up and are fine now.  Now Debi does a booth at the state fair and offers to let us come to help.  J sent an email with her dates etc.  Debi gave her other dates because it's better if they don't work on the same day.

J emails Debi back with hatemail and emails our CFO she wants to be on this other ladies team (who is still under Debi).

I mean it just keeps going.  Nothing makes her happy.  She hates Debi, doesn't like me really for whatever reason.  She's a leech and just expects that we give her so much one on one.  I work full time lady - I don't have time for that.  Debi has 8,000 people under her.  She definitely doesn't have time for that either.

Ok, I just had to get that out.

/vent

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PCOS and Endo

Ovarian drilling and endo removed 1/3/12
BFP - 3/27/12
Beta's 11, 14, 57, 637, 2800
Sono showed no baby and teeny tiny sac. Waiting to M/C naturally.

Re: Can I have a Scentsy vent here?

  • Ugh man. People like that annoy me - she's never going to be happy, which sucks for you guys. You can't cater to her every wish; that's just ridiculous. I hope it gets better!
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  • I just want to say I know how you feel. I am an advisor for another direct sales company (part time) and when we go to our monthly meetings with my manager I pray that this one lady isn't there. She has questions, comments, complaints every.single.time we have a meeting. Her problems are always SO much worse than anyone else's. I often tease my manager and say "Wow I bet you're glad you signed her, huh?"

    There always seems to be 'that person' that annoys the crap out of everyone else. I mean even at work when we have a training class there is 'that person' that all the other emplyees just want to scream at and say STFU!

  • Ugh, I know!  I hate to complain but Lord help me.  This lady has literally been in her house for 30+ years.  She hasn't worked.  She homeschooled her kids.  That's fine and all but helloooooo, the outside world has changed a lot in 3 decades.

    What I want to say to her is this.  "Look, it is YOUR choice to be a part of this company.  In the business world, I don't have to put up with your BS.  In fact, I'm not obligated to give you any more of my time than anyone else which I have done for you.  So, you have 2 choices.  You can quit or you can put your big girl panties on and join the rest of reality.  Kthx!"

     

    ETA - what company do you work for if I can ask?

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    PCOS and Endo

    Ovarian drilling and endo removed 1/3/12
    BFP - 3/27/12
    Beta's 11, 14, 57, 637, 2800
    Sono showed no baby and teeny tiny sac. Waiting to M/C naturally.

  • imagejanda309:

    ETA - what company do you work for if I can ask?

    I am an advisor with Lia Sophia

  • Interesting.  I've never heard of them before.  Google told me it's jewelry though :)
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    PCOS and Endo

    Ovarian drilling and endo removed 1/3/12
    BFP - 3/27/12
    Beta's 11, 14, 57, 637, 2800
    Sono showed no baby and teeny tiny sac. Waiting to M/C naturally.

  • I have some Lia Sophia, it's pretty stuff. I just wish they had some Sterling.

    It's true, though, those types of people suck. And why do the most high maintenance always seem to be the least worthy? I'll have a small claims client that calls me 5x a day while a client with a divorce involving tons of money and a brutal custody battle will leave me alone. Or when E was with his former company, his most whiny and high maintenance client was the company's tiniest. He actually had to drive over 2 hours each way out on Long Island for a 1/2 hour meeting just to placate the guy.

  • It amazes me how little some people know about the real world.
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  • I'm just glad the vent wasn't about me, lol!
  • imageamethyst1220:
    I'm just glad the vent wasn't about me, lol!

    Oh gosh no, Pam!  Once you got started, you were fine!  Actually, you've probably asked less questions than 99% of the people on my team.  I'd love to have more Pam's!

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    PCOS and Endo

    Ovarian drilling and endo removed 1/3/12
    BFP - 3/27/12
    Beta's 11, 14, 57, 637, 2800
    Sono showed no baby and teeny tiny sac. Waiting to M/C naturally.

  • imagejanda309:

    imageamethyst1220:
    I'm just glad the vent wasn't about me, lol!

    Oh gosh no, Pam!  Once you got started, you were fine!  Actually, you've probably asked less questions than 99% of the people on my team.  I'd love to have more Pam's!

    Ha! I'm probably 99% less active! ;)

  • I hate when people like that don't realize that they are the common denominator.
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  • People like that annoy the crap out of me
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