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Do Europeans do Wedding Gift Registries??

An old friend from Spain is getting married and I'd like to send something. I'll probably send her a classically "American" gift but I wanted to see if she has a registry.  She got me a paella pan (certainly not on my registry but one of my favorite gifts!!!) and included her family recipe for seafood paella along with step-by-step photos of her preparing it. What an awesome thought!

Anyway, I have two questions:

1. Is it in the European culture to do registries?

2. Can you think of anything "American" that would make a great gift? I haven't been to Spain since the mid-90s so I'm not sure what's en vogue over there now.

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Re: Do Europeans do Wedding Gift Registries??

  • I don?t know what the custom is in Spain, but Germans often have a table set-up with stuff they?ve selected at that particular store, and people can come buy items off of it. But it?s also equally common for people not to do it and just request money.
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  • We have a few Dutch friends who have gotten married and they requested money.

    Maybe send some money with a photo of your family if you haven't seen them in a while, or a few photos in a book? 

     No help with the American thing.  I struggle with this when ever we need to buy my husbands co workers something from the states.  They are amused by the funniest things. 

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  • We had one (English - Luxembourgish) all the people that we've know have had one, put an account number in their invites or have had an account at a travel agents.
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  • In Britain couples usually register at a store but im not sure for Spain.

    Good luck finding a typical 'American' gift, Im British so no help here!! 

  • In Spain, people give money at weddings. I know that is not fun but people really make up cards with their bank account number so that people dont have to bring the money to the wedding.

    I dont know what a typical American gift would be or how much money you would want to spend but you can create a gift basket with classic  American movies and snacks.

    You can also order something from Amazon UK and have it shipped there.

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  • I know in Italy they only do registries at fancy china and silver stores. They usually give money as a gift otherwise. Silver is considered a good luck gift.
  • Thank you so much for the ideas and advice. I'm not able to attend so I didn't get an invitation. She was studying here when I got married so she was able to come to mine. It's so hard to see your own culture as an insider. When I studied abroad, we brought gifts for our houseparents. That was near impossible since we didn't know them yet. I settled on a Pfaltzgraff oil & vinegar set and Hershey's kisses since I'm from PA. Maybe I'll ask what she misses from living here. Thanks again! I'll keep checking back :)
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  • I don't know if this is too similar to what she did but what about a cookbook and something to go with? I think a baking book would probably be more typically American.. something like the Magnolia book and then some cupcake trays, maybe a bundt cake pan, cupcake papers, etc.
  • Whatever you do, don't give her a coffee serving set. We've been given FIVE now. Not sure if that's a coincidence, or if it's a typical Spanish gift.

     

    If you didn't get an invite, forget the typical Spanish gift of 100+ euros/invited person. Things I've needed in the past have been measuring cups and spoons, the Joy of Cooking cookbook, etc. Make sure they have/use an oven if you give them baking related things. 

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    Whatever you do, don't give her a coffee serving set. We've been given FIVE now. Not sure if that's a coincidence, or if it's a typical Spanish gift.Hahahahahaha...

     

    If you didn't get an invite, forget the typical Spanish gift of 100+ euros/invited person. Things I've needed in the past have been measuring cups and spoons, the Joy of Cooking cookbook, etc. Make sure they have/use an oven if you give them baking related things.  This too.

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    Thank you so much for the ideas and advice. I'm not able to attend so I didn't get an invitation. She was studying here when I got married so she was able to come to mine. It's so hard to see your own culture as an insider. When I studied abroad, we brought gifts for our houseparents. That was near impossible since we didn't know them yet. I settled on a Pfaltzgraff oil & vinegar set and Hershey's kisses since I'm from PA. Maybe I'll ask what she misses from living here. Thanks again! I'll keep checking back :)
    Judging from what I've heard on this board, Hershey's anything will completely gross her out and I'd skip that altogether ;)
  • We?ve been to a few weddings recently where the couple did have a registry at el Corte Ingles.  An American gift that I would recommend that isn?t so common here would be a spice rack with spices.  We got a nice Martha Stewart one when we got married and our Spanish guests always comment on it when they come to our house.  I learned many new SP vocabulary words by translating the names of spices for them.  A couple of times we?ve even played a game where you smell the spice and name it.  They don?t use as many spices in their cooking here as we do but after the game several friends have told me that want to experiment more with them. 
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