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Speaking of porn...

H has mentioned many times he wants to try watching porn together, I'm still on the fence. I guess what I'm trying to figure out is- what do you do while watching it? Do you watch like its just a regular movie, or act out what they're doing on the movie? 
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Re: Speaking of porn...

  • I find it very erotic.  Will lay in bed and watch some good XXX.  Not the real raunchy stuff.  We'll play with each other.  Oral sex maybe.  If it gets hot, we'll make love. 
  • Most of the time we will just lay in bed together and watch it, usually to get in the mood to have sex. Sometimes, we will actually have sex while the movie is playing it, not necessarily acting it out, but more using it for background noise- which doesnt really do anything for me, but H says the noise turns him on.
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  • imagerawrandstuffx10:
    H has mentioned many times he wants to try watching porn together, I'm still on the fence. I guess what I'm trying to figure out is- what do you do while watching it? Do you watch like its just a regular movie, or act out what they're doing on the movie? 

     

     

    This. Although I'd suggest know what you're watching. You don't want to come across a scene that you aren't comfortable doing. Good luck and have fun =)

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  • Also, cardinal rule of couples porn:  if you're getting hot during a scene, don't wait!  Enjoy each other!  Depending on your attention span, you may want to pause the scene or tune it out to some extent.  But don't just wait for the next scene or something.
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  • Also, obviously, new to this board/TN, but I really wanted to give that quick piece of advice!  Good luck!
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  • Do you watch like its just a regular movie, or act out what they're doing on the movie?
  • Agree with Alcyone1.  Don't wait.  If something makes you horny, go for it!  Especially for the dudes!  Attention span!
  • We started watching it at the beginning of our relationship.

    I remember having a tiny feeling of uneasiness, like there was something a bit shameful about watching it. Thankfully I (unlike many others) didn't ignore that feeling and decided that we didn't need to watch that junk to make our sex life fantastic. In fact it just jades your thoughts of what "sex" should be like.

    I didn't have much experience at first but porn doesn't really help with that. It's about how comfortable you feel. How open you are to let your sexuality flow with your husband and not be embarrassed.

    A spicy sex life is as simple as wearing heels and cute pany/bra set when he gets home, or suggesting the lights stay on, or complimenting his man business and how great he is at it. He'll want more and he'll want to make sure you are satisfied too so don't be shy to tell him to touch you this way or that. It's all about being creative on your own. NOt using videos that promote unrealistic ideas that cause unfavorable expectations.

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