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H has mentioned many times he wants to try watching porn together, I'm still on the fence. I guess what I'm trying to figure out is- what do you do while watching it? Do you watch like its just a regular movie, or act out what they're doing on the movie?
Re: Speaking of porn...
This. Although I'd suggest know what you're watching. You don't want to come across a scene that you aren't comfortable doing. Good luck and have fun
We started watching it at the beginning of our relationship.
I remember having a tiny feeling of uneasiness, like there was something a bit shameful about watching it. Thankfully I (unlike many others) didn't ignore that feeling and decided that we didn't need to watch that junk to make our sex life fantastic. In fact it just jades your thoughts of what "sex" should be like.
I didn't have much experience at first but porn doesn't really help with that. It's about how comfortable you feel. How open you are to let your sexuality flow with your husband and not be embarrassed.
A spicy sex life is as simple as wearing heels and cute pany/bra set when he gets home, or suggesting the lights stay on, or complimenting his man business and how great he is at it. He'll want more and he'll want to make sure you are satisfied too so don't be shy to tell him to touch you this way or that. It's all about being creative on your own. NOt using videos that promote unrealistic ideas that cause unfavorable expectations.