May 2008 Weddings
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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
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Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
i did it (f/u to help me say no post)
i emailed my dad and told him now wasn't a good time for anyone to come stay with us. i offered to help him look for alternate housing (i didn't have time to do a lot of research ahead, but can do it if he wants me to).
so... kind of waiting for the other shoe to drop.
thanks everyone for the support - at first i thought i was the most horrible person for saying no, so you've made it a lot easier.
Me:39 Dx LPD, Fibroid, AMA and all that goes with that. H:37 Dx low motility and low morphology. TTC since 3/12. Clomid 8/12 and 9/12: BFN. 11/12 on a break for Myomectomy sched. 11/26. Resume TTC early 2013.
Re: i did it (f/u to help me say no post)
girl you are NOT a horrible person. More power to those folks who take their parents in. I need my personal space and am itching for even my family and friends to leave after day 3 but can tolerate day 4 and day 5 you better get going.
With someone who hasn't shown appreciate or concern for you it's completely understandable to not want him there...doesn't mean you don't want him to have a good place to stay.
And with you working from home whether you think it will or not it would cause stress on you which then you'd take out on F and then there would be tension between you two and just from our chats he seems like someone that once he's there it would be hard to get rid of him and he wouldn't be appreciative.
If he writes back and is ugly just know it's not you and I would push helping him find a great place again. If he doesn't want to see you care and are trying he can find a place on his own.
So so so so so happy I will no longer have a guest room available weeeeeeeee haha
Good for you!! You are not horrible.
If he writes back and says that its just more fuel for your argument.
well said.
hahahaha - awesome! now i know why you wanted to have another so badly! LOL
thanks for all your help :-)
very true. i often forget my mental state is part of my health, too.