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clicky: stripclubz.

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Re: clicky: stripclubz.

  • H has never had any desire to go, but if he did I don't think I'd be all, "No, you're not allowed to." The fact that people control like that kind of blows my mind.
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  • I answered "no" because I know H has no interest and would never go, and I don't really like the idea - I wouldn't actually order him around like that, but I felt that was the closest answer.
  • My H is totally against going. BUT.. if at any time he changed his mind, I'd say got for it for sure!

    I think it'd be a funny experience! :)

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  • I don't like the idea and I certainly would have a problem if DH wanted to go on a random Fri night (or Wed afternoon) w/ some guys for no reason.  But, if it''s a bachelor party or something like that, I'm fine so long as he behaves himself.  Who he's going w/ would make a big difference -- some are bad influences.
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  • imagesarack:

    I think it'd be a funny experience! :)

    This!

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  • I voted yes without a doubt. I think DH got a lot of that out of the way before we started dating. It was known in our town that the easiest place to get into with your fake id was the strip club. 

    That being said - I've never found DH at a strip club on a random Wednesday afternoon. I can think of twice in 3 years he's gone - both were bachelor parties.

    I do have a rule though - and DH is well aware - after a night out there, you aren't getting any sexy time from me that night.

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  • we are going in a couple of weeks in vegas, im excited. I joke thought that im going to be turned off after 10 minutes and wanna leave. 
  • I have no problem with it as long as it's for a bachelor party. If it was a random Wednesday night then I might.

    DH went to one in Vegas for his friend's bachelor party, I had no problem at all.

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  • I debated and went with "no problem with it," but I seriously considered, "only if I get to go too" just because I've always been curious to go to one. So the general rule is more like, unless it's a b-party, I have to be allowed to go if I want.

    I would have issues if he went on a weekly basis or something, but since he thinks Seattle ones are creepy (explained in other posts), I'm not bothered by that. My general rule is "no touching!" LOL. I told him I figured they would probably go to one for his b-party and while I understand there was a high likelihood of one of the guys buying H a lap dance just to see him turn red, I wanted no knowledge of that particular event if it occurred.

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    I have no problem with it as long as it's for a bachelor party. If it was a random Wednesday night then I might.

    DH went to one in Vegas for his friend's bachelor party, I had no problem at all.

    if H went alone, just because on a wed night it'd be out.. do people seriously go more often then just for like guys night out or bach type parties? i think i am in the dark on this...

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  • imageMiniSteph:

    I have no problem with it as long as it's for a bachelor party. If it was a random Wednesday night then I might.

    DH went to one in Vegas for his friend's bachelor party, I had no problem at all.

    if H went alone, just because on a wed night it'd be out.. do people seriously go more often then just for like guys night out or bach type parties? i think i am in the dark on this...

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  • imagesarack:
    imageMiniSteph:

    I have no problem with it as long as it's for a bachelor party. If it was a random Wednesday night then I might.

    DH went to one in Vegas for his friend's bachelor party, I had no problem at all.

    if H went alone, just because on a wed night it'd be out.. do people seriously go more often then just for like guys night out or bach type parties? i think i am in the dark on this...

    creepers do...!  Otherwise I imagine they wouldn't be in business for very long.  ick.

  • okay...reading some responses...i realize i might need to amend my own answer. i chose "absolutely without a doubt".....but that's because h wouldn't even think to go on a weeknight by himself. if he did, there'd be a problem.....but for the boys night out / bachelor party thing....i see no problem with it at all.
    ♥ bfp2 02/15/2012 ♥ edd 10/23/2013 ♥
    ♥ bfp1 06/14/2011 ♥ edd 02/22/2012 ♥
    ♥ baby jennlin born on 02/15/2012 ♥

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    who says you can only wear your wedding dress once?

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  • I chose SS because DH hasn't ever really shown an interest in that. I know he's gone before to them (maybe twice in his life), but it was to show his brothers what they were like, not to get his own jollies off. So... yeah, if he wanted to go, I'd totally trust that it would be for "educational purposes". LOL
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