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Things you miss from being single

I love being married, but there are certain things I really miss from single life (and some of them are very silly). For example I miss being the only one who watched my TiVo. If I had already watched something I could delete it without worrying whether someone else would want to see it :) what random things do you miss from being single?

Re: Things you miss from being single

  • I miss flirting with men. Not all the time,but I loved getting dressed up and flirting with guys when I was out. It was an ego boost!  I suppose I sometimes miss just the going out and being social! I'm not sure the change in going out has anything to do with me being married though

     

  • imagemyblueangel19:

    I miss flirting with men. Not all the time,but I loved getting dressed up and flirting with guys when I was out. It was an ego boost!  I suppose I sometimes miss just the going out and being social! I'm not sure the change in going out has anything to do with me being married though

     

    This.  Everything else associated with being single I can get my fill of when H is away for work.  Like right now, I've made myself a dahl that I love but H doesn't really, so I don't make it when he's around.

  • I used to miss flirting with men, especially because STBXH gave me no attention whatsoever. 

    I missed making just an entire bag of edamame for dinner--men eat so much!  I hated having to make big dinners that I really wasn't interested in.

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  • I miss flirting. And I miss now knowing what I was going to do on a day to day basis. Honestly though, DH and I got together really young (19) so although I am absolutely sure it was the right decision and I'm really happy, I miss the things I never had! I was never a single grownup with my own flat, etc. and I think that would have been fun.
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  • I miss eating what I want to eat all the time. DH likes such different foods to me so we both have to meet half way.
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  • I miss having a tv in my bedroom sometimes. DH doesn't like it and I have come around to agree with him. But now and then I'd like to be able to get a really crappy "dinner" of doritos and ice cream or whatever I wanted and go up to bed and pop a really cheesy girly movie on and essentially go to bed at 7.
  • I also miss flirting and first kisses - make out sessions. Man,. it's been 13 years since I've had a first kiss.
  • I miss going out and dancing. DH does not like to go out dancing. I know I could do it but it was just more fun when I was single flirting and dancing.
  • imagehamilton.ja:
    I miss having a tv in my bedroom sometimes. DH doesn't like it and I have come around to agree with him. But now and then I'd like to be able to get a really crappy "dinner" of doritos and ice cream or whatever I wanted and go up to bed and pop a really cheesy girly movie on and essentially go to bed at 7.

    This sounds awesome and makes me want a tv in our bedroom too!

    I miss lots of things already mentioned . . . living alone or with girlfriends, first kisses, spending whole paychecks on shoes/clothes/makeup.

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    imagehamilton.ja:
    I miss having a tv in my bedroom sometimes. DH doesn't like it and I have come around to agree with him. But now and then I'd like to be able to get a really crappy "dinner" of doritos and ice cream or whatever I wanted and go up to bed and pop a really cheesy girly movie on and essentially go to bed at 7.

    spending whole paychecks on shoes/clothes/makeup.

    Oh! I really miss this too!

  • I will tell you what I have come to love about being single:

    - First kisses. There are some guys I just want to kiss, even though I know it has zero potential.

    - Lazy weekends whenever I want. I can choose to get up and do stuff, or I can choose to laze in bed or curl up with a book, and I don't have to worry about aligning my chores/errands/relaxing/socializing schedule with ExH.

    - Attending cool events. First, my single friends have a much better finger on the pulse of the city, so without ExH, I get invited to more concerts and talks and dance parties. And ExH had a tendency to be very judgy. I went to a Pecha Kucha night last night, and it was a blast (even the terrible presenters), but I think ExH would have spoiled the fun by being too judgmental.

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  • Flirting

    First Kisses

    Having my own bed

    Going out on a Friday night, partying and coming home on Sundays. I go out to clubs here and there, but I can't party like I used to. This could also be me missing being young, lol. 

    General Neatness. Men (or maybe it's just my DH) are so messy. 

  • I don't miss being single. I feel weird.
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  • imageFayeD:
    I don't miss being single. I feel weird.

     Generally speaking I don't miss anything about being single except the luxury of deciding to have a "day off" once in a while where I can literally decide to not cook, not clean, not get dressed, not do chores/errands/whatever. Even with DH around if I said I needed a day to veg and he could go do whatever he waned that would be cool.  So that's less about being single and more about being a parent. 

  • This is a good post for me, who's gonna marry soon. I know it doesn't apply for me this topic, BUT made me realize that I miss going out to dance 'til the morning, when I wasn't dating my fianc?. He doesn't know how to dance and is shy, so we really don't go out, not a complaint though. I'm fine with not going out like crazy, like I did before. Ok, I'll go back to my ''not-married-yet'' corner Embarrassed

    Ok, next weekend I'm going out with friends, while I don't move to U.S Stick out tongue
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  • Other than the flirting with guys and kissing thing, I'm not missing a thing because I'm really making an effort to do things with my girlfriends that I would have done as a single lady - I've gone out dancing twice this summer, gone to shows that DH doesn't like, etc.  But to be honest, if I was single now, I probably wouldn't be so thrilled about it cause 40-something year olds just don't seem to get flirted with quite so much as the 20 and 30-something year olds...probably cause there arent' as many single 40-50 yr old guys where I hang and even if there are, they're focused on the 20-somethings.  But I loved it back when I was that age, thus why I didn't get married until a bit later on!
    I like pineapples...they make life just so much more interesting.
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