Enjoy giving oral? I feel like I am an odd woman out here. Hubby and I have been together for going on 5 years (married 3) and within the last year I have come to actually enjoy giving DH head. Lately I have felt like a sex crazed teenager (I have always had a high sex drive even while and after pregnancy)!
Also lately DH and I have been having some communication issues brought on by stress from financial reasons, also he is more stressed because of working a ton and I have been stressed because of fulltime school. I don't know if it is a way for me to give him something he really enjoys, is why I enjoy it or maybe I am just weird. For some reason it makes me feel sexy, which I guess isn't a bad thing : )
I guess there wasn't a huge point to this post except to ask if I am the only one out there?
Re: Does anyone.?
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Okay. It just seems the majority of women loath it or don't ever do it. DH and I met when we were young and have been together since and so when we were a little younger we were all over each other and really did have crazy sex like teenagers all the time and my sex drive has not changed, not even after my daughter. It makes it worse because he is gone a lot for work (he is a tow truck driver). We just recently (last 4-5 months) bought some toys for the both of us for alone time (really the first time telling him that I masturbate : ) and together and I think that has helped out a little.
Like I said we have been having stress/talking issues lately and I am hoping I am relieving him of some of his stress this way. Also I am in need of losing weight (just got a gym membership) and so I am a little self conscious (except for during sex which does and doesn't make sense to me) DH makes me feel beautiful no matter what and I am not worried about my clothes not fitting right because I'm not wearing any. So giving him oral makes me feel sexy on top of him already making me feel beautiful..So I am taking it all as good and I know he is enjoying himself as well.
Now maybe I can get him to go on a date with me if I tempt him with a surprise!
ps tmi
This was all brought on by some great rough sex that we had last night that made me feel like all our problems were gone.
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This was all brought on by some great rough sex that we had last night that made me feel like all our problems were gone.
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This is a major blessing! Sex is the same thing for me! It removes me from the day to day and lets me escape. So I have as much sex as I can get and DH loves it! Do anything you want! Engage in your fantasies and his! DH and I have been together five years and our sex is hotter and more frequent than ever (we have always been a very sexual couple)!!!
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LOL, I love doing it, and I love seeing how much he enjoys it! I kind of feel powerful that I, all by my self can make him that happy, if you catch my drift?
I completely understand! I never really minded it ever and I believe my technique has improved over some time, plus over time I have learned more and more what DH likes. But over the last few months I have been so horny and it is like I can't control it.. I have some huge hormone surges and lately I just want to make him feel good, even though I think I could probably have sex all day. I think a lot of wanting more sex is I have a 2 year old and it is about that time for another baby so maybe if I please him enough he will have more sex with me so I can get prego! I figured that we would already have another baby by now, but I am kind of glad we don't because the spacing will be nice.
I am so glad that I am not the only one out there that LOVES satisfying my husband like that. I thought I was weired haha.
Thanks for sharing