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Swallowing

So SO and I have been discussing for a long time the fact that swallowing turns him on. I have never been a fan of going down on a guy but since being with him, I have done it and began to it enjoy it as foreplay just as much as he does. But now comes the swallowing thing. I always seem to divert away from the topic because I am not sure how I will handle it. I am thinking I will gag or even worse, throw up. Please give me tips on how to overcome this and how to make this easier!
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Re: Swallowing

  • I've had to deal with the same situation, and I'm interested in this advice as well. The only thing I can tell you is to swallow fast! and then get something to drink, to me it always feels like it's sticking to my throat, I still try to convince him to do anything else to get out of that though. lol! I'm so glad you're so open about this btw. Hope we get some good advice!
  • I will say, it's a lot easier when you are actually enjoying going down on him.  When you're really wrapped up in the whole thing, you aren't really thinking about "should I swallow, is it going to be gross, will I gag, etc."  I don't really have advice, since I've just always swallowed, except that I'm sure the anticipation is worse than actually doing it!  Try to relax and focus on what you're doing, rather than anticipating what comes next. My word of advice:

    It's not as bad as you think it's going to be.

     

    Good luck!

  • Try to remember that when he is going down on you, he is licking and swallowing your juices, so it would only be fair for you to do it in return. I love swallowing my man knowing he is swallowing my juices and believe me I get very wet.
  • So I can say that all the advice of what the guy should eat to make it taste better are true... Definitely he should stay away from salty foods.. Also, the more hydrated ( so I've heard) the better it goes down... Not so sticky.For me, I have a weak stomach, but my hubby says that going on my face (me looking up at him with my mouth open) is very close to being ad good as swallowing... So we compromised since I don't really like doing either.For sure try it once, every guy tastes different (again so I've heard) and every girl is different whether they like it or not.Hope that helps!
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    So I can say that all the advice of what the guy should eat to make it taste better are true... Definitely he should stay away from salty foods.. Also, the more hydrated ( so I've heard) the better it goes down... Not so sticky.For me, I have a weak stomach, but my hubby says that going on my face (me looking up at him with my mouth open) is very close to being ad good as swallowing... So we compromised since I don't really like doing either.For sure try it once, every guy tastes different (again so I've heard) and every girl is different whether they like it or not.Hope that helps!


    All I can think of is that episode from SATC where Samantha complained "his spunk tastes funky." hehe I think she gave him pineapple juice to drink.
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  • Well, my husband and I "go down" on eachother almost every time we have sex and foreplay is very important to us, but most of the time it's JUST foreplay so he doesn't have the chance to finish.  When we had our son almost 4 years ago I swore of giving him road head LOL said we are parents now.... blah blah blah... well Lately I told him if he got a new truck with a bench seat, well... he just might get lucky. LOL!!!  That new truck has been in the driveway for a month now and the poor guy still hasn't gotten any.  Personally I'm not a fan of swallowing either, but Ive never spit it.  I just swallow because its easier and cleaner, and guys like it better so I hear.   But I also agree, "he swallows my juices" so why should it be any different!   Tell him to stay away from salt and garlic ive heard 
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  • First of all relax. The more you think about what you are attempting to do, the more likely you are to gag. Hum, while giving him oral. It relaxes the throat muscles & also, he will enjoy the sensation. When you learn to focus on his moaning b/c he enjoys it, it will turn you on to turn him on & it will be easier. 

    As far as the swallowing, have him eat pineapple or drink pineapple juice. It will def. change the taste of him & makes it sweet. Have him avoid salty foods. Have him tell you when he is close so that you are not surprised by it and when he does, take him farther back in your throat so that it goes down easier. Once you realize how much he enjoys it, you will enjoy it that much more. :)

     

  • Of the few times I've swallowed, it's easier when you're giving him head, not only because you won't be thinking about it, but because you can "suck it out of him" and just swallow as if you were guzzling water. Just make sure you have like a soda or something to wash it down with!



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  • I was just like that at first. It grossed me out, but I ended up trying it and he loved it. And just as binzy said, when he goes down on you, he kind of has no choice to swallow. lol.
  • use mouth wash before, things will feel a little fresher from the start less likely to get "gooped up" in ur throat. keep the tip going closest to the back of ur throat when hes super close so it goes straight down and as pp have said, "suck it out of him" itll feel awesome for him and itll be less noticeable for you. just keep reminding yourself how hot it is to him and do ur thing ;P good luck

     

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