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Dear Community,
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Come tell me about Fetlife girls
I joined Fetlife because of our interest in bondage. But there does not seem to be alot activity on it. Maybe it's just the area of the country I am. So tell me what do you get out of it? Do you go to the meetsup etc?
Re: Come tell me about Fetlife girls
What I would suggest to you is to go to the Secretary message board on IMDB.com. It is highly active and a lot of friendly people who I am sure can help you out! Here is the link:
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0274812/board/
I have seen the moment of my greatness flicker
I'm a big fan of Fetlife! You need to do some groundwork before it's terribly useful though. Search out local groups and join them. Look for munch in your area and go to them. Also look for bondage and rope-related groups that interest you and join them. Then, most importantly, POST. Don't sit back and watch the action. Ask questions, make comments.
Write something useful on your profile. If you're looking to meet like-minded individuals, say so. If you're already partnered and not looking to make a love connection, say that instead. Mention the things that interest you. The point is, make yourself interesting enough for other people to want to get to know you. Making FL friends is crucial to learning about things in your community.
I've been on FL for quite a while and this common complaint all the time. But when I look at that person's profile, I can see that they don't have anything written about themselves, nor have they joined many groups. I have close to 50 groups in my feed and just under 200 friends. It's from these things that I learn and find out what's going on my my scene.
~ The Nestie formally known as MrsBrittany ~