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Grandparent names

Yes, I know it's early for this question, but my MIL has already started talking about what she wants to be called. So far, the name she is referring to herself as when we talk about the baby, is pretty horrible (I think anyways) and I don't want to have to refer to her as that since I hate saying it. LOL

Just curious, who decided what your child's grandparents were called? You or the grandparents? 

Re: Grandparent names

  • My brother's ex wife's daughter decided what my mom would be called...mimi. The grandfathers are grampy because that is what I have always called my grandfathers. Mil has always referenced herself as nana. It works for us.
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  • I have no idea what my parents will be called-- I named my mom's parents since I was the oldest. DH's parents will most likely be called what he & his sister called their grandparents. I was sad when my mom said she didn't want to be a "Bubbe".
  • Once we get there, my MIL has declared she wanted to be the french word for grandmother. But my FIL is far from french and no way would like to be the french word for grandfather. So we made the decision based on what I called my grandparents since DH's grandparents passed, for the most part, before he was born. DH's parents will be grandma and grandpa and my parent's will be granny and grampy. We already use those terms when talking with their "furry grandbaby" so changing it now would be weird. And confuse poor Digby. 
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  • Personally I only like Grandma and Grandpa.  I used to call my dad's mom GramLastName so I don't want to have my son call my mom that.  For now we have Grandma and Grandpa K, Grandma and Grandpa G, and his Great Grandparents are Grandma and Grandpa R.  I figure he will come up with something when he is older, but that's what we do now.
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  • here's the thing.  It's really not up to grandparents- your kiddo will name them. 

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  • My parents are Grammy and Grampy, because my grandparents on my Mom's side were Grammy and Grampy...

    MIL went back and forth on what she wanted to be... and decided on Nana, FIL is Pepere because that is what Josh's grandfather was and FIL always wanted to be Pepere... 

     My Gram is 3G (Great Grammy Grace) or GG... 

     

    however, the boys have started to call my Dad Bampa and call FIL Pepe so we will see what happens when they start talking! 

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  • My mom wants to be called Meme (sp? the french one) and my dad wants bumpa. My MIL is already Besta (she picked that name because she's the best Confused) and my FIL is already know as grampa.
  • The parents picked their names. Dad is Grandpa. FIL is Opa (since he's got German decent). MIL is Mum-C or pronounced Mumsie (since their last name starts with C.) Mom was going to be Honey B because she thought it was cute and their last name starts with B and she wanted to sound young, but then she went with Grammy.

    James has been going with it, so that works for us. 

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  • imageGlitzyklm:

    here's the thing.  It's really not up to grandparents- your kiddo will name them. 

    So true. Right now the little dude calls his grandfather Poppa, his grandmother Gamie, and my dad Dogert. (My dad's name is Rob)
  • imageGlitzyklm:

    here's the thing.  It's really not up to grandparents- your kiddo will name them. 

    For the most part, yes! My mom used to call her dad "dad" obviously, and I tried to copy her and "Da" stuck (I know Mollie calls her father this!)... but my other grandparents were already named since we were the younger generation so we called them what everyone else did.

  • My MIL (who has seen the baby 2x total) said that she was 'calling' nana.  Whatever, that's fine. I asked everyone else.

    All are generic, except my dad is 'The BOG' (Bald Old Grandpa).  We've always called him (The BOM), but a family member said "Now you're not the BOM anymore, you're a grandpa.  BOG.  Bald Old Grandpa". And if fits.

     

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  • Based on my nieces and nephews, I think the names that are picked out and used early do stick - we call my parents Grandma and Opa (my dad's mostly dutch) and MH's parents are the traditional french Memere and Pepere.  
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  • imageGlitzyklm:

    here's the thing.  It's really not up to grandparents- your kiddo will name them. 

    yes, but before he even begins to talk I'm sure we'll be pointing at photos and saying "there is grandma" or whatever. I called my grandparents what my parents referred to them to. 

  • imageGlitzyklm:

    here's the thing.  It's really not up to grandparents- your kiddo will name them. 

    That's what happened with us. We were planning on them all being Grammy (last initial) and Grampy or Grampa (last initial.) So that's we called them when Eli was born. When he started talking he ended up calling my parents Mimi and Papa at first and it just stuck. Tim's parents are Grammy and Grampy.

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  • We let the parents pick.  When my niece was born, my mom was feeling too young to be any traditional grandma name, so we searched around and finally came up with Amma, which we thought we made up, but it turns out to be Norse. So my folks are Amma and Pop, N's dad is Grumps (he may have been kidding when he said that's what he wanted, but it stuck), and N's mom is Inny (a childhood nickname).  Funny, only N's step-parents have traditional grandparent names, Grandma for SMIL and G.B. for SFIL, short for Grandpa Firstname.

    The stories with this list make me laugh:

    http://www.namenerds.com/uucn/granny.html

     

     

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  • imagemeganmarieCA:

    We let the parents pick.  When my niece was born, my mom was feeling too young to be any traditional grandma name, so we searched around and finally came up with Amma, which we thought we made up, but it turns out to be Norse. So my folks are Amma and Pop, N's dad is Grumps (he may have been kidding when he said that's what he wanted, but it stuck), and N's mom is Inny (a childhood nickname).  Funny, only N's step-parents have traditional grandparent names, Grandma for SMIL and G.B. for SFIL, short for Grandpa Firstname.

    The stories with this list make me laugh:

    http://www.namenerds.com/uucn/granny.html

     

     

    I love reading through those! It has inspired me to think outside the box when I become a parent/grandparent! 

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  • imagemeganmarieCA:

    We let the parents pick.  When my niece was born, my mom was feeling too young to be any traditional grandma name, so we searched around and finally came up with Amma, which we thought we made up, but it turns out to be Norse. So my folks are Amma and Pop, N's dad is Grumps (he may have been kidding when he said that's what he wanted, but it stuck), and N's mom is Inny (a childhood nickname).  Funny, only N's step-parents have traditional grandparent names, Grandma for SMIL and G.B. for SFIL, short for Grandpa Firstname.

    The stories with this list make me laugh:

    http://www.namenerds.com/uucn/granny.html

     

     

    Nice! Amma and Afi are Icelandic - my XH was from Iceland - I'm glad I didn't have kids with him, but I always like Amma. :) 

    Before my kids can talk I'm sure we'll call the grandparents something of their choosing, I think my parents want to be Grammy and Poppa, and that's pretty close to what the little dude calls Matt's parents, so my kids might end up with two Grammies and two Poppas.

    I only have one living grandmother and she was always Grammy, till last year when she decided she wanted us to call her Grandmere. 

  • We decided they would call my parents Grammy & Grampy...Jake had other plans though.  He called them Mimi & Pa - he just came up with it.  Jake called MH's parents Meemaw & Peepaw lol - we were able to retrain Jake to say Grandma & Grandpa before it stuck though!
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  • My mom and dad were grandparents before I was born, so I don't know how the names came about, but their grandchildren all call them Gram & Pep.  FIL has passed, but we will teach Colby about him and use whatever name his other grandchildren called him - I honestly don't know what that name is...  oops. 

    MIL is Mamie ("mammy") to her eldest granddaughter (who was mispronouncing Grandma as a baby), so that's what we call her with Colby.  She is Grandma to another set of grandkids, and Memaw to another grandchild.  The poor woman can't keep track of all her names! 

  • my Mom said she wanted to be Meme, My step dad will probably be Grampy Kyle, My grandmother has always been Grammy Bea, so she'll still be that, or Great Grammy Bea, My step grandparents are Grammy & Grampie Flint so they'll stay that, and I have a great Gram Con, My Dad & Stepmom will be Grumpy & Linnie... well, Dad wants to be Grampy, but Linnie & I call him grumpy... so we're hoping she'll call him that, just because it's funny.  My stepmom's name is Linda, she decided she didn't want to be grammy or nana, and everyone else calls her Linnie, so she's assuming that Baby will too, My dad's mom is just Grammy, she's the only one that when we just say Grammy everyone know's who we mean, because everyone else has Grammy XYZ at the end of it.  My step-grandparents are Nana & Poppy, and that's what they'll stay.  
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