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s/o BoyMom's post

Her post kind of made me wonder this... Does your H check the nest for your posts? If you don't know, do you think he does?

I think I would if it were reversed and he posted on a public forum.

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  • I've asked H if he does this.  He says he doesn't.

    I know he knows my Nest name, and I am sure he could google and find the board pretty easily. 

    Maybe I won't have to talk to him tonight and he will just say that he read my post? :)

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  • No, he doesn't. We both participate in several online forums (he more than I) and while when we were younger and I was more jealous, I would read his posts from time to time on a forum for fraternity/sorority people, but I haven't done that in years.

    He knows I meet people from this site, and that I post here, and occasionally I'll share some of the more interesting stuff with him. He has no reason to feel threatened or concerned, and neither do I.

    There is one forum where we both participate, but even then, we don't even visit the same boards on the forum lol. He stays in the politics forum, I tend to gravitate toward current events and food/restaurants. Not surprisingly. 

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  • I am not sure if he does or not. He knows my nestie name and I tell him about stuff from the nest all the time.  He posts on an OU board and I used to post there too but I was one of the only girls and it started to skeeve me out plus, I just felt like I was invading his space.

    I wouldn't mind if he saw my posts.

  • No, I'm 99.99% sure he doesn't.  He obviously knows I post here and I talk to him about posts, but I don't think he cares enough to read up on it.  I obviously have nothing bad to say about him and he knows that.  He thinks it's weird that this forum is public to view, but he most definitely thought it was weird and creepy that my ex-husband was still reading my posts here a couple months ago.
  • He doesn't.  He knows my SN (well, not my new one I guess) and I've shared some posts with him but I'm almost 100% positive he doesn't.
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  • I doubt it. He is soooo not interested in anything I post online. But I'm like you--I probably would check his posts online because I'm nosy.
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  • I don't think so. I imagine he would find it really boring. He's on some sports forums, but I've never looked at them, either because I have no interest. Facebook is a different story. We check one another's occasionally just so I can see what's up with people we haven't mutually friended (for me it's our old neighbors, for him it's some of his fraternity brothers.)
  • No, definately not.
  • D has no interest what-so-ever in what I post on here. He knows I get on here and that I have met a lot of you but other than he just shrugs his shoulders and moves on. I know he gets on like sports forums for his fantasy teams he makes each season and he always asks me to join, but I honestly wouldn't understand half of it so I never make a team. We tell each other pretty much everything so there are no real secrets between us.

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  • Nope. I think he'd find it boring. He said he looked at it once because I still had it pulled up on the computer, but that's about it.

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  • Mine doesn't.  He barely even likes the internet, much less the computer.  Plus I don't think he particularly cares what I post, as long as it's not TMI.
  • I don't think my H does. I specifically asked him not too, after I learned that he lurked on the Knot and saw pictures of me in my dress before the wedding. Most of what I post I wouldn't mind if he read, but sometimes I just need a place to vent about him. I know it's a public forum and anybody can read what I post, but somehow it still feel like an invasion of my privacy if H was lurking without telling me.

    H is a regular member of a gaming forum, but it's private rather than public like the Nest. Even if I could access it, I have no interest in reading his posts.

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    I specifically asked him not too, after I learned that he lurked on the Knot and saw pictures of me in my dress before the wedding. 

    I remember this, I was really bummed for you.  And it made me extra paranoid about hiding pics of my dress from DH lol
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  • I'm pretty sure he doesn't. He would have no intrest in what all is posted. I know he gets on forums (mostly Jeep) and I have no desire what goes on-on that board. He does know that I post and that I have met some of you.
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