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Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Re: QOTD - Friday
But now that I think about it, I'm not sure if that's really being "too nice" or if it's more of a lack of assertiveness.
i don't think so. like you said, you can be nice but still assertive.
i wish i was more nice/less of an ***.
lol...me, too!
I don't think it's possible to be too nice, but I do think that it's possible to ignore boundaries when trying to be nice. like people who swoop in to help someone who uses a wheel chair who is struggling on a curb. they are being nice, but ignoring the fact that it's more polite to ask first if the person needs help. or the "helpful" MIL who takes it upon herself to be nice and rearrange your cabinets and pantry without asking. when you leave a person like "uh, that's nice, but you really, really shouldn't have", then it's too nice ;-)
I would argue that the motive behind this is not actually "niceness" and is more likely "this isn't good enough"
yes, it is