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I'm putting this here
So that I don't go agro on DH.
There were a small number of dishes from last night's dinner. I went to bed earlier than DH (that is normal). I woke up this morning to find that he didn't do the dishes. Not fine, but he had today off, so I figured he'd do them at some point during the day.
Nope.
I came home from work to an empty house. The two plates from last night were soaking in the sink, but the pig pan and pot were still untouched on the stove. This completely grosses me out, but he gets upset when I do the dishes for him. So I left them.
Now we're sitting here, and he's futzing around on his computer, and has made no mention of the dishes. None. I even asked him what he did today. He hung out at the house until the afternoon, when he finally went out.
This is added to the mental list of all of the many things lately that he has said he would do and hasn't. I'm not so much mad, just really disappointed. We've talked about it so many times, and I'm tired of bringing it up. It doesn't seem to do any good.
Re: I'm putting this here
I'm with you on this one. No matter how many times I try to talk to him about it he'll say he'll try to do better but nothing ever changes! Maybe this is why we all have the control mentality because truthfully it either A. doesn't get done or B. isn't done very well.
I get tired of my clothes smelling nasty because he leaves them in the washer or dryer. I told him to stop doing my laundry.
PCOS and Endo
Ovarian drilling and endo removed 1/3/12
BFP - 3/27/12
Beta's 11, 14, 57, 637, 2800
Sono showed no baby and teeny tiny sac. Waiting to M/C naturally.