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have to tell this secret to someone!!!

dnykaydnykay
in Sex & Romance

I found out this morning that my BFF's BF had a threesome with two people that my BFF cannot stand! He was in threesome with his close (male) friend and the friends wife. Any other time, I would LOL, or could care less, but if my BFF ever found out, it would crush her. I do know she has no clue b/c she would tell me, then go to jail for killing him! I will never tell her I know this, but it is bothersome since we all hang out and the three involved lie to her face. (her BF told her he despises threesomes and would never do it) Even worse, he did it about two months before he started dating her. 

Again, I will never speak of this to her. I just had to get it out & 'vent' about it. And btw, the person who told me is one of the three...WTH!!!??? 

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Re: have to tell this secret to someone!!!

  • TheBurgTheBurg
    Too many BFFs and BF and BTW for me!!!  Karumba!  Anyway...keep that under your hat!  You'll lose that BFF and her BF and ..............WTH?  Right?
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  • SweetCuppinCakesSweetCuppinCakes
    What the hell does it matter since it happened before he even started dating her? And maybe because of that experience he DOES now hate 3somes? Mind your own business.
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  • oldbugleoldbugle member
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    Why do I have the nagging feeling that it's only a matter of time before you blab about this....?
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  • dnykaydnykay

    imageoldbugle:
    Why do I have the nagging feeling that it's only a matter of time before you blab about this....?

     

    there is NO WAY i will ever tell her. i didn't ask to be told about it. this is one that i will take to the grave!!! 

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  • jadeorchid21jadeorchid21
    Well, better you tell us since we don't know you people.
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  • DerniermotDerniermot
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    Its not gay if its in a threeway!
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  • EastCoastBrideEastCoastBride member
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    imageSweetCuppinCakes:
    What the hell does it matter since it happened before he even started dating her? And maybe because of that experience he DOES now hate 3somes? Mind your own business.
    My thoughts exactly.
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  • lilbitbeakerlilbitbeaker

    imageSweetCuppinCakes:
    What the hell does it matter since it happened before he even started dating her? And maybe because of that experience he DOES now hate 3somes?


    my thoughts exactly!
    it was before they were together so it shouldnt matter..
    I did LOTS of things before my fiance and I got together (and I know hes done lots of stuff before we got together as well!).

     

    imageDerniermot:
    Its not gay if its in a threeway!

    with a hunny in the middle theres some leeway :)

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  • ghettogurl869420@yahoo.comghettogurl869420@yahoo.com
    i say don't tell, it was before they dated and maybe he thinks it was weird and won't do it again. Let the truth come out on it's own...no good ever comes out from medling.
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  • kjewellkjewell member
    He did it before he meet her, I wouldn't tell her but I wouldn't make a big deal of it.  Maybe he told her that he hates threesomes because he didn't enjoy it.  If someone told me that they hated it I would assume that they had tried it.
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  • DaringMissDaringMiss member
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    Who told you?
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  • binzy2524binzy2524
    Maybe you and your bff should find a man and have a 3-some so then it's all equal.
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  • SteedaSteeda
    How did you find out?
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  • ~NB~~NB~ member
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    imagednykay:

     Even worse, he did it about two months before he started dating her. 

    So, exactly what is the issue here? Why would anyone care what happened then?

    And why is the fact that it happened BEFORE they began dating WORSE than if it happend after they started dating?

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  • lifeguardlifeguard member
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      Just one more example of how affairs etc will ruin a relationship. Less trouble and more fun in the long term to be a committed couple.

       I don't know why some folk actually find this reality show type of tripe interesting and worth knowing about? 

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  • KyleandAndreaKyleandAndrea
    They weren't even dating so its not like he cheated on her.  Keep it to yourself so you don't ruin something that could be potentially good for 2 people and/or a friendship.  By the way I would  take the post off the internet in case your friend ever joins or already is on here. :-)
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  • kellyt89kellyt89

    imageSweetCuppinCakes:
    What the hell does it matter since it happened before he even started dating her? And maybe because of that experience he DOES now hate 3somes? Mind your own business.

    ditto. exactly. 

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  • heyimcortneyheyimcortney
    He probably hates them because of the experience he had with them.  And it happened before they dated so it is totally unapplicable.
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