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For those of you who are PG away from their home country, what did you do for a shower?

Did you have gifts sent to you? Did you forgo the shower all together? 
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Re: For those of you who are PG away from their home country, what did you do for a shower?

  • I didn't have a shower. People gave M gifts when we went home for a visit when he was 6 months old.

  • We had a registry which no one knew about. It was mostly for me to keep track of what I wanted and my mom bought stuff from it. 

    My H went to the states when I was 7 months and a bunch of friends happened to send me gifts at the same time. So, I made a shower with just me and H when he returned opening his suitcases filled with stuff he got, and the packages from friends.

    Then my mom surprised me with a skype shower that just had family there. They brought the gifts that family gave me when they came to visit.

    My H's German coworker's German wife offered to throw me a shower, but since it's not common in these parts, I didn't know her too well, and I was uncomfortable with the idea, I said no thanks. I kinda felt she was doing it more to promote her business anyway (and was proven right a few months later).  

  • I didn't have a shower.
    Mum to W (4) and M (nearly 2)
  • Women usually have showers here, so I will probably have one here.  I have already had a friend and MIL mention it in passing. Registries don't seem to be as popular here though. 

    I will probably end up registering on Amazon because they have a universal registry and can add Aussie stores/items on it which will save a ton on shipping.  I think my friends and family in the US will most likely want to buy us gifts and will hopefully be able to order them off there.   

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  • Yes, when I was in the States, but a  very small one.  In England, showers are done, but not the norm yet.  People give gifts after the baby is born, and people do not buy big ticket items unless you are family. 
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  • I had a shower when I went home to visit at 24 weeks.  I knew my mom was having a shower so I created a registry on amazon uk and on babies r us in the states.  All of the big things were on amazon and friends/family bought many of those items and they were all shipped directly here.  There were only a few things on the babies r us registry.  At the shower if people had ordered a gift from amazon they wrapped a picture of it and everyone else gave mostly clothes, blankets, and other small stuff that fits in a suitcase.  It ended up working out really well.
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  • No shower the first time, local shower with my expat friends the second time.
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