It went fantastic. I am SO SO glad I went.
The shower was over the top (this girls family totally is known for outrage, awesome events). The shower started with a cocktail hour. I got a bit nervous since when I got there I knew basically no one there so I was standing alone desperately looking for someone to talk to. Then two of her friends came over by me (thank god) that I've met before and I spent the time with them. I had a great conversation with them and got wonderfully starred down by the exbf.
Then we went inside to the room where the shower was and I basically was seated at a table and exbf was seated literally directly across from me where if I looked straight up we would be making eye contact. I sat next to a woman who I had a great time talking to. She has two older children, but she CD her kids and had done 2 home births, so I loved hearing her stories!! I really, really liked her and we had a great time being we didn't even know each other. I felt really confident and smiled the entire time because I genuinely was having a great time.
By the end of the event, she actually seemed to be more uptight than I was. Being she knew way more people there than me, it should have been the opposite. I think she was praying that I'd be fat from being pregnant (she is VERY superficial) and since I wasn't I think she was having an oh crap moment.
It was a fantastic day and I'm glad I didn't need to ring up Larissa for backup! Thanks ladies for telling me I should go!
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Yay!!!!!
That sounds like my kind of shower, I adore cocktail hour at any and all events possible.
Seriously.
Alyssa, I've reread your post. So this chick sat across from you and seriously made no effort at all to talk to you, just tried to.stare you down? She's the type to give herself an ulcer.
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Yup! The whole time. I was speaking pretty much nonstop to the woman next to me. We were having a great conversation. I literally smiled the entire time. I'm pretty sure she wanted to knock me out because I was clearly very comfortable there, which definitely annoyed her.
What a twat she is. Good riddance you're no longer friends. I thought she was going to have her clique with her?
She was missing her most important member of her tag team. Thank god.
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I do too! I think that also made my smile just a little bit bigger.
We're very similar, then. I'd be the same way.
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