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Do I have to go?

H just got the plans for that upcoming wedding. Their inviting all the SOs of the WP to the RD. (H is the BM) I don't know if any of the other SOs are going. If they aren't going then I definitely don't want to go, buuuuuuut I don't really want to go anyway.

Is the RD super important*? Do I really need to go to this? 

*Disclaimer: sorry if this is a stupid question, we didn't have a WP

 

Re: Do I have to go?

  • yes you should go. but if you don't want to and H doesn't care.. just find something to do that night.. then you'll have other plans. problem solved.
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  • If YH wants you to go, then I say yes. But if he is ok with you not going and there are no other SO's going then nah, I think  you can skip it.
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  • I'm pretty sure I haven't been to a RD where SO's didn't go... weird
  • He says he doesn't care if I go.

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  • lol. it would be about a month from the 10/14 and 2 months from the 9/17 that didn't happen.. lol.
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    lol. it would be about a month from the 10/14 and 2 months from the 9/17 that didn't happen.. lol.

    Yeah, huh! I totally need a drink then too. 

  • I want to make it to a GTG soon and think I can make that one so I vote skip it =)
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  • I think it would be a bit odd not to go, but if your H doesn't care and the couple wouldn't be offended/disappointed, then you could skip it.
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    lol. it would be about a month from the 10/14 and 2 months from the 9/17 that didn't happen.. lol.
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  • Why not go..maybe you can meet one of the other SO's and find someone you can hang with when your DH is tied up with BM duties?
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  • I think it's weird not to go w/ DH, but if doesn't care I guess you can skip it???
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    yes you should go. but if you don't want to and H doesn't care.. just find something to do that night.. then you'll have other plans. problem solved.

     

    I agree  

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  • Really? Weird, in this circle hardly any of the SOs have ever gone to a RD.

    There are only 2 other SOs that I'd remotely be interesting in seeing there and even then I don't really care that much, so I'm going to try and make plans for that night. Devil

  • depends. how good is the dinner? i'd go if it was somewhere good.
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  • I'm up for a GTG! As of right now I should be available for that night.

    If we are still doing the GTG on 10/14, I can't make it. DH is on vacation, so we are doing something then. 

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