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petty vent (so you're not alone, husky)

Today school starts... which means I'm even more self conscious that people think I'm in college... probably a freshman... or maybe a visiting HS student Crying  Yes, I have a backpack, which probably doesn't help, but it's the most comfortable thing for carrying my laptop and lunch darnit!  If I had a dollar for every time someone said "you'll appreciate it when you're older" we could pay of H's school debt, lol.  But seriously, I hate that people must look at my tiny, backpack carrying self and think "aww little student person". 

And even when I'm more made up (heels, full make-up etc) than younger sister, people still think she's the older one.  It's a lost cause.

Re: petty vent (so you're not alone, husky)

  • I feel ya. I get the "you'll appreciate it when you're older" a ton. It gets old.

    Though I will appreciate it. When I'm 50 I'm gonna look good. Wink

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  • what are you? grad student? or u just work there?

    people tell me i look younger sometimes and older others.. it doesn't bug me. but i hope i have your problem when i'm old!

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  • *sigh*

    i'll appreciate it one day, too.....but until then, i'm an adult!

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  • imagesarack:

    what are you? grad student? or u just work there?

    people tell me i look younger sometimes and older others.. it doesn't bug me. but i hope i have your problem when i'm old!

    grad student, but I was out of college for two years before I went back (and have been in for 2 years), so I'm definitely older than college students - I sometimes just feel really self-conscious for some reason, like, I want people to think "cool grad student" not "cute little HS student".

  • We could make you a patch for your backpack that says "Cool Grad Student"

    From one former grad student to another - you'll keep getting the comments until you've graduated and never step foot on a campus again.

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  • imagekarimychel:

    We could make you a patch for your backpack that says "Cool Grad Student"

    oh pretty please?!  that would be awesome, lol

  • imagekarimychel:

    We could make you a patch for your backpack that says "Cool Grad Student"

    From one former grad student to another - you'll keep getting the comments until you've graduated and never step foot on a campus again.

    That and that. 

    I still get asked if I'm the summer intern. It's been 7 years since I graduated college. I totally feel your pain. 

  • imageuwhuskygirl:
    imagekarimychel:

    We could make you a patch for your backpack that says "Cool Grad Student"

    From one former grad student to another - you'll keep getting the comments until you've graduated and never step foot on a campus again.

    That and that. 

    I still get asked if I'm the summer intern. It's been 7 years since I graduated college. I totally feel your pain. 

    Same here. People used to ask me when I'm going to graduate from HS. It hasn't happened in a year or so, since I've stayed with this team at work, but it's half amusing, half frustrating when it does/did happen.

    ftr: I graduated from hs in 1997.

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  • For what it's worth, people always used to think I looked younger than I was and it was frustrating. (No, my ID is NOT fake! Don't let me into your stupid club then but I need my ID to drive home, Mr. Bouncer Person!!) But now? Now I'm 31 and apparently the past 5-6 years have been hard on me because I rarely get carded anywhere anymore, and people are pretty darn close to accurate when guessing my age. :(

    So, from the other side of the fence...

    But yeah, I can see it getting tiresome, not feeling like people look at you like an adult. I'll see about that patch ;)

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    But yeah, I can see it getting tiresome, not feeling like people look at you like an adult. I'll see about that patch ;)

    I would wear it with pride :)

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