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Dear Community,
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Do you think the best or the worst?
Are you more likely to think the best of someone, or the worst?
"You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you." - Dale Carnegie
Re: Do you think the best or the worst?
Rai's comment about celebrities got me thinking about this. I imagine the worst of celebrities.. like, if they hold an outreach program or do something good for the community, I'm assuming it's so they can use it if they get arrested to appeal to the judge for leniency. lol. Or that they kick puppies for fun when no one's looking.
But for "real" people, I tend to think the best, to a fault. Like, if I saw someone kick a puppy, I'd probably say to myself "I bet the dog moved when they were trying to kick a football." I don't think I really BELIEVE myself, but it's almost a cumpulsion to find a scenario that makes them a good person. lol
My 'think the worst of people' mentality makes me think you barely got any answers because the rest of us think the worst and don't want to admit to it. heh