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Another FB question....am I being cheated on?
Can you end up having someone on your list of friends on FB that you haven't "befriended"?? How would they make it in there? By a "virus"? I noticed a woman on hubby's page and when I asked about her (she was half dressed!) and who she was, he had no idea or how she got in there. If he had anything to hide, why would he want to have her among his list of "friends" so even I can see? But how does a stranger get on your list of friends??? Has never happened to me, has it to you? Can I contact FB to find out if this CAN happen?
Re: Another FB question....am I being cheated on?
They can only be friends if your H requested her friendship or she requested him. Either way, one of them accepted the request.
No, he doesn't play any kind of games. When I checked his brothers firends on FB I noticed that this girl was on his list too. That leaves the "virus" out, doesn't it?
I guess i will have to confront him but not something I want to do.
It's possible that she was just friends with his brother and she friend requested him randomly. Some people like to build big friend lists. I have friends of friends send me requests, and I don't always know who they are. I often figure they're people I knew back home but don't remember anymore. He could have seen that she was friends with his brother and accepted the request thinking he'd figure out how he knows her later.
Also, regarding the half-nakedness... She probably had a normal profile pic when he accepted the request and changed it later.
Honestly, unless you have other reasons to suspect him, I wouldn't worry too much about it. It's not like your husband's mistress is going to be FB friends with his brother (unless they already knew each other).
Right, but one of my friends got hacked and his picture AND his name were changed, so it looked like I was friends with a different person.
ITA with all of this.
yes, you are being cheated on and his brother is doing to her too. They are having 3 somes together. how heck would we know if your husband is cheating on you with someone from facebook?
Second, the account owner controls who sees what. you are not the owner of said site then you are not entitled to see anything. do you not know how to use facebook?
Either he requested to be friends with her and she accepted or she requested to be friends with him and he accepted.
Are you sure she is in the friends list and not the "people you might know" list?
"They say with time it gets better. Not true. With time you only get used to it."