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my sister's GF got a BFP
they started articificial insemination a few months ago and got a BFP on saturday. i am happy for them but a little sad it's not us. i also feel sad that when we get pregnant it won't be the first grandchild. normal?
Me:39 Dx LPD, Fibroid, AMA and all that goes with that. H:37 Dx low motility and low morphology. TTC since 3/12. Clomid 8/12 and 9/12: BFN. 11/12 on a break for Myomectomy sched. 11/26. Resume TTC early 2013.
Re: my sister's GF got a BFP
Congrats, you're going to be an Auntie!
I think that's normal too. I know that our pregnancy won't be as exciting b/c our children won't be their first either. sigh.
I'm gonna say normal. Granted, I didn't originally feel this way. My brother had his kids when I was 11 and then 16 so I had no real thought re: kids anyway back then. When J's sister had her first, we were barely married and not even thinking of kids yet, so again I didn't care. I feel differently now tho - seeing that SIL's kids get preferential treatment (mainly the first born). *sigh* C'est la vie.
Congrats to them!
And it is completely normal. When my little sister got pg right out of high school I was majorly stung. It didn't matter that I was only 20, in a brand new relationship (with future H), and nowhere near ready to have kids myself. I was not going to have the first grandchild (or even the 2nd). So I prayed that we would get to have the first grandSON, and we did. Don't beat yourself up about. You aren't the first to feel this way.
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Congrats on being an Aunt!!
Totally normal. Its ones of the things that bothers me the most about our infertility!!
And yes, totally norml. My brother & SIL had the first Grandchild.. I always thought it would be me.. Then they had the 2nd just 4 months before I had my son. My parents now have 5 Grandchildren unfpder the age of 4.. And each and every one of those babies is so exciting and thrilling to them.. Grandchildren make their grandparents nuts... I shouldn't have worried at all...
aw yay
and yes, totally normal i'd say.
traycee, that pic of noah! omg, what a doll!