Not to go into too much detail but:
He's great in bed but lately I've been finding myself on top....always....
Not that it gets tiring, but does get boring after a while.
Unfortunately we can't really achieve any other positions successfully because he has a large "one-pack" that gets in the way (ALOT!) & it seems our height differences are interfering too. (I have long legs, short torso, he's the opposite.) Picture doggy and trying to get the right height but having to bend your knees ![]()
Just curious if anyone is/has experienced this & would like to suggest how I can change things up?
I could tell it really bothers him when we try new stuff and it ends up not working out, he just gets totally turned off after.
Never knew a beer gut could hijack our sex life!
Please don't say make him lose weight because he is in the process of doing so. I'm just looking for a solution now!
And he doesn't drink beer (actually hates it) but I didn't know what else to call it!
Re: beer gut butts in during sex
Try spooning --- see if that turns the trick.
That he's doing something about his weight should be, for him, very encouraging indeed. GL.
You described it perfectly - that is actually our favorite position! DH reallys likes it because he can play with me as well while we are having sex - we both orgasm when we position that way.