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A little scared to post this over "there" yet, but...

Thomas Beatie is pregnant again.

Thoughts?  There are some...ahem....interesting comments circulating on P&E so I thought I'd see what all of you thought.

Re: A little scared to post this over "there" yet, but...

  • Good for him and his family :)

    I doubt that the will be in the spotlight as much this time, which is probably better. That was really the only thing that bugged me about it, although I am sure that it helped for them to pay for whatever fertility treatments they needed ect.

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  • Ditto, Dev.

    The AW-ishness of it bothers me a little bit, but that's all.

    What's bothering me over on P&E are the comments like - "what man?  he's not really a man, etc."  Sad

  • imagehrparker:

    Ditto, Dev.

    The AW-ishness of it bothers me a little bit, but that's all.

    What's bothering me over on P&E are the comments like - "what man?  he's not really a man, etc."  Sad

    Yeah, those comments always get to me. Yes, maybe he isnt biologically male, but he is a man. Legally. People need to get over it.

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  • imagelyssbobiss:

    Good for him.  Any time a child is born to parents who want it and will love it, I'm thrilled.  It's a nice change of pace from the unwilling parents I'm used to seeing.

    I wonder if his previously taking male hormones affected his reproductive system at all.  Thoughts?

     

    Not entirely sure, though I do no that he had to cut most (all?) of them out when they decided to try to conceive.

  • I'm amazed that he's keeping his facial hair and what not even after having the first baby. Like that the hormones not in his body didn't effect those things.

     

    I think the whole "not a man" thing is really just because its not scientifically significant to impregnate someone with a functioning uterus - which "he" has. Just kind of spinning off the whole "why is this newsworthy" thang.

     

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  • I haven't checked out the discussion on P&CE yet... is it too much to hope that it stays respectful and on-topic?

    The way the media has played up their unusual situation (or maybe the way he has played up his own situation) has bugged me. It feels very National Enquirer. "OMG, a pregnant man!" Yeah, but it's not like my brother magically getting pregnant. Can't happen. There are other circumstances at play here.

  • I'd be more interested if someone was born male, with XY chromosomes, without a uterus or ovaries, and then became pregnant.

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  • I don't think there is anything all that odd about this story. I support their desire to start a family in the manner they see best. And their little child is awfully cute. However, I do take issues with some aspects of this story. (1) He is not a man having a baby. He is a biological female having a baby. The reason why I think this is relevant and this point needs to be made is because if a biological man were having a baby it would indeed be a huge story. (2) This family seems hell bent on turning their very normal pregnancy into a media sensation. They have a book deal. They invited People to their home, now Barbara Walters. It's all really odd to me. Especially given the fact that this is not even the first pre-op biological female living life as a male to have a child.
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