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poll: sleep

do you and your h go to bed at the same time during the week? do you go to sleep at the same time? who falls asleep first? is the person awake last able to read or watch tv in the bedroom or do they need to stay in the other room because the other person can't sleep with lights on or the tv on?
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Re: poll: sleep

  • do you and your h go to bed at the same time during the week? If he's not working yes we go to bed at the same time.

    do you go to sleep at the same time? who falls asleep first?  Usually we go to sleep at the same time.  It varies who falls asleep first.

    is the person awake last able to read or watch tv in the bedroom or do they need to stay in the other room because the other person can't sleep with lights on or the tv on?  I don't like it when he reads while I'm trying to sleep since his light is above our heads and shines in my eyes.  If I want to stay up reading I'll go out to the living room.

  • do you and your h go to bed at the same time during the week?  Not currently. He usually goes to bed around 9pm, and I go to bed between 10pm - 1am.  Depending on when Genna goes to sleep for the night and when I'm actually ready - I may have a glass of wine, catch up on emails (stuff I don't want to do on my phone since using the actual laptop is not possible with the kids awake)/edit or upload pictures, pay bills.

    do you go to sleep at the same time?  Nope.  See above.  And to explain more.  We currently cosleep with Gabby.  We're having trouble getting her to sleep in her own room.  It's really frustrating, but usually J will put her to bed and lay with her while she falls asleep - and 9 times out of 10, he falls asleep too so yeah.

    who falls asleep first?  J, always.  :-/

    is the person awake last able to read or watch tv in the bedroom or do they need to stay in the other room because the other person can't sleep with lights on or the tv on?  If Gabby wasn't sleeping in our room, I could watch TV or read while J slept, no problem.  But since she is sleeping in our room right now (*sigh*) I just stay out in the living room until Genna is asleep.  

  • do you and your h go to bed at the same time during the week?  yes

    do you go to sleep at the same time? no - I usually fall asleep on the couch, then Hubs wakes me up and we go to bed together.

    who falls asleep first? see above

    is the person awake last able to read or watch tv in the bedroom or do they need to stay in the other room because the other person can't sleep with lights on or the tv on?  If I can't fall back asleep, I'll usually do stuff on my phone until I get tired.  Hubs doesn't mind.  If I want to watch t.v., I'll go out to the living room.

  • do you and your h go to bed at the same time during the week? - We hardly ever go to bed at the same time during the week. He's usually awake 2 or 3 hours longer than I am.
     
    do you go to sleep at the same time? - I always fall asleep first. H has trouble falling asleep.
     
    is the person awake last able to read or watch tv in the bedroom or do they need to stay in the other room because the other person can't sleep with lights on or the tv on?  - I usually have trouble with teh TV b/c it's too big for our room so it lights up the room like WOAH, but after a while I can doze off and eventually fall asleep. I'd rather H watch tv and lay with me in bed so I just deal with the TV. H falls asleep to the TV though, so I'm usually awoken in the middle of the night to the TV and struggling to find the remote.
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  • do you and your h go to bed at the same time during the week? - Yep, at 10. H's choice (I'd prefer to go at 11, but I feel odd being up when he's in bed). 
     
    do you go to sleep at the same time? - No, he always falls asleep first
     
    is the person awake last able to read or watch tv in the bedroom or do they need to stay in the other room because the other person can't sleep with lights on or the tv on?  - I read on occasion, but I can tell H doesn't fall asleep as fast so I hardly do it. He gets up earlier so I try to be accommodating to that. 

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  • do you and your h go to bed at the same time during the week?Usually.  I sometimes stay up 30-60 minutes longer than him.

    who falls asleep first?Probably me.  He takes sleeping pills, so sometimes him.

    is the person awake last able to read or watch tv in the bedroom or do they need to stay in the other room because the other person can't sleep with lights on or the tv on? The bedroom is for sleeping. There's no tv.  If someone wants to go to bed, the other person has to go do something else, somewhere else.

  • We go to bed at the same time and we usually read.  I usually end up going to sleep before DH, but not long before.  He is able to read all he wants after I go to sleep.  We don't have a TV in our room so he couldn't do that anyway.
  • It depends. We both will read or play on phones and ipads in bed without bothering the other person.
  • do you and your h go to bed at the same time during the week? No, he like to stay up watchingTV or finishing homework.

     do you go to sleep at the same time? who falls asleep first?  I fall asleep first.

    is the person awake last able to read or watch tv in the bedroom or do they need to stay in the other room because the other person can't sleep with lights on or the tv on? No, any type of light bothers me, so he stays watching tv at the livingroom or will read at the garage.

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  • do you and your h go to bed at the same time during the week? Maybe two or three times in an entire week do we go to bed at the same time. It depends on our schedule. There are nights I am in bed before he is even home from work. Then there are nights that he is in bed hours before me b/c I am off the next day and he has to get up at 4am.

    do you go to sleep at the same time? If I am working I try to get to bed between 930-1030. If I am off I go to bed between 1030-1am. I use to stay up a lot later when I was on night shift.

    who falls asleep first? Him. I have a hard time falling asleep and staying asleep.

    is the person awake last able to read or watch tv in the bedroom or do they need to stay in the other room because the other person can't sleep with lights on or the tv on? I will read on my kindle. I despise the tv being on while I am trying to sleep and like Carly said I hate TV's in bedrooms. H will occasionally play on his cell or netbook. I sleep with a sound machine on every night and some nights H turns his ipod on a sleep timer.

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