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Last year we really didn't do anything for dbag's bday because we were in the middle of the whole 'had to fly back to the states to get the papers signed that dbag refused to sign before we moved'. So he got an email from the airport terminal from R and thar was it.
I don't know if I shared all the drama surrounding R's bday and how dbag freaked out because we wouldn't be home for R to skype on his bday, but he went on and on about how people should get phone calls etc for their bday (also, his gift was a week and a half late). Then he swore for my bday that R would skype me, send a card, and a gift, because it was the right thing to do.
Fast forward to this summer when it was my bday. They missed our regularly scheduled skype session three days before my bday and were too busy to skype on my bday. I did get an email from R saying the bday card he bought me was really funny. The card never arrived, I got no gift or skype.
Dbag's bday is in November, two weeks after my due date and a few days before E's bday...
So WWYD for dbag's bday?
Re: Dbag's bday? WWAND?
This. Be the bigger person in this situation. Plus, from the little that I know of your story, his dad obviously has his priorities, at times, mixed up but he is still dad. Don't be the driving wedge between the relationship.
love is for every her, love is for every him, love is for everyone
Send a card and skype.
My mom loathes my real-dad and she never hid it. Ever. She would call my real-dad names and never spoke highly of him to me. I know your ex is a d-bag, but let your son figure that out. I eventually learned that my dad isn't perfect, but he's still my dad.