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It's been a while since we've done one of these. LSU's post reminded me.
Anyone want to chime in?
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Re: TTC check in
i'll start..
so, we haven't tried since the miscarraige. i can't mentally get into the place that i'm OK to try again. I don't really know why. i keep putting it off now, like "oh, we have this wedding to go to so i'll wait...". also, with my recent health issues it's probably not a good time to be pregnant anyway. so, i'm not sure what my timeline is...soon-ish I guess. it's going to be tough...i feel like all of the joy is going to be overshadowed by the worry this time around.
Nothing to report here other than that the OPKs did seem to point out that I ovulate later than the FF calendar. Which kind of annoys me that I started FF in the first place without doing the temping. We still do it at all times in the month, but I know I definitely focused on that time, which would have been the wrong time.
Now that we're doing the OPKs and the mucus watching I feel more positive about it. I know AF is coming for this month b/c I feel like junk as usual, so I don't even want to test. Just ready to get it right next month.
I guess we've been trying since we haven't been using protection, but I'm not sure if it will even work since this cycle has been all messed up. AF was lat seen on July 31 and hasn't made a visit since then. I've been takin pregnancy test every two weeks after sexy nights but they've all been negative. Tomorrow I will test and that one is to prove my aunt right or wrong (I posted about this a couple weeks ago). I honestly feel it will be negative again. Anyway, we did stop trying because it's been a while since I last saw AF and I've had cramps on and off and on Sunday I felt I was going to die! I had similar pain to lower abdomen as when I was induced and my bach, my arms, and my legs were in pain. It almost felt as if the pain came right from my bones. I told dh I would stopp guessing when I'm ovulating and I would go visit my OBGYN as soon as three weeks pass from the last sexy night. AF needs to come if I'm not pregnant. Last time I went to the Dr, he said we would wait to make sure I wasn't pregnant before he gave me anything to help me with AF. I figured 3 weeks after the last time should be enough time. I guess, I take a test tomorrow, then on the 20th, and finally on the 27th before I see the dr if no positive results. Good thing I can sit and wait for AF to come if not I'd be very tired
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Oh, so I guess we have been trying. Now I have to wait what the Dr says when I go back.
Mmm, not sure if this is a good sign that you are not pregnant because I felt like I was going to get my period when I got my BFP for Gigi.
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No longer TTC. Saw my gyn on Thursday and I started birth control on Sunday. I have decided to pursue something else and put off any fertility treatments for the foreseeable future. I actually just PM Danielle the other day and asked her to take me off the TTC list.
Sorry I am being vague but Ill explain soonish.
I'll wait for your full explaination, but I just wanted to say that I hope you are okay!
Me too!
Ditto!!
I don't know if we're officially TTC but I'm no longer on the pill and I was ovulating over the weekend while we were away for our weekend getaway. So, we could have made a Berkshire Baby. We shall see. We are really just not on any birth control at this time and we'll just see what happens. Coincidentally I was ovulating over teh weekend. We shall see.
Normally I'd agree, but we actually missed the days we were supposed to do it based on the OPK's this time because of the UTI. Lots of acronyms there! I kept doing the OPK's to at least see if those would tell me if I'm ovulating and it seems like it's a yes. They definitely "changed" and lasted that way for a few days and then stopped right when the CM stopped so we're definitely trying them again this month.
Glad the OPK's are showing you a change!! Hopefully next cycle will be it for you.
Ditto. I hope everything is alright.
I guess I can check in also. We're not TTC at all right now. Not sure when we'll try for #2. Maybe when we get some more sleep? haha
bucks- I think you're smart to wait until your health improves. I'm sorry that you think your next pregnancy will be so stressful though
bmw- I hope your new venture is a good one!
kare- I hope the temping/cm method helps you out!
to everyone hoping for one: I hope your BFP comes soon!
bwm - good luck, ill check in to see what your update is
we aren't ttc at all right now either, as dd is only 2 months old. i choose sleep over sex.
but since we've had her, we have moved our ttc timeline up to when she's about 15-18 months old instead of when she's closer to 2. but a lot of things can change between now and then.