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So I got home for a LONG ASS day at work today after a long ass day at work yesterday to get ready for a long ass day at work tomorrow and I come home to a husband that wants to "talk"...Yep he told me tonight that he changed his mind and doesn't want a 2nd child...I'm devistated and have been crying ever sense...It is what it is and I'm done with the whole thing...I'm giving myself the good cry and will move on tomorrow...I can't change his mind and I'm done putting my body through the clomid cycles and emotional mess that comes with it.
My happy little family of 4 will never be, but I will have my happy little family of 3. That being said I have some pregnancy tests to pass on if anyone would like them. FB me your address and the first one of you gets them.
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I'm so sorry that you're having a craptastic week. And I'm sorry that YH dropped a huge bomb on you today...
Jake blowing out the candle at Katie's coming home party
Katie Belle
Kristen, Chad, Jake, Katie & Sadie the Wonderdog, est. 6/17/06
(((Hugs)))
I'm sorry. Be happy for the great little family you have but give yourself time to grieve the loss of your desired family, too. This is not a trivial matter.
In a perfect world, husbands and wives would all be in agreement over the desired family size. Too bad you and I don't live there! My DH and I are currently not in agreement over our family size. He's leaning toward no more kids and I'm leaning toward wanting to try for another, which is exactly reversed of where we were two years ago. It's really hard. I've got a few more weeks before DH and I have a self-imposed deadline to decide. I may be joining you for a virtual coctail or three in a few weeks.
This is exactly what I was thinking. So sorry.
Thirding this. I'm so sorry Alicia, what a bombshell to walk into at the end of the day
(((hugs)))