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New here- Which house would you choose?

We are trying to choose between 2 different houses.  One is a great neighborhood- great schools (that our kids are already going to), just a beautiful well manicured area with walking trails, close to Hubby's work & close to my Mom.  But it needs quite a bit of cosmetic work inside.  Will need all new appliances soon, needs bathroom & kitchen work, etc.  The other place is about 15 minutes farther away.  The neighborhood's not horrible, just not as good.  Schools, again, not horrible but not as good (I would probably end up driving the kids to their current schools, about 20 minutes away).  But the inside has been updated beautifully.  New SS appliances, great paint scheme, great kitchen and bathrooms, etc.  And is much cheaper.  I have always heard choose by neighborhood, but am having a tough time on this one...

Re: New here- Which house would you choose?

  • Choice A 100%!

    Cosmetic problems with the inside are small in the scheme of things, and more importantly, completely within your control. Neighborhood, schools, etc. is all stuff you can't really change once you move in.

    Also, think in the long term. If you're planning on staying in your new house for a while, then I would imagine that eventually you will also want to redo the kitchen/bath etc. in house B as well.

  • Choice A also!

    Anything wrong cosmetically you can change or have changed over the years. You can't change the feel of the neighborhood or the school plus since the kids are already in that school district, that will make a transition easier on them.

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  • Choice A for sure, we had to do the same when we went house hunting , had a house beautifully done inside , but neighbourhood wasnt where i wanted to be and then we saw a home that has a lotttttttt of wallpaper ( every room including the basement lol) , ancient appliances, kitchen and bathrooms need updating badly and it was priced higher than the upgraded home but the neighbourhood was perfect, so we went for it :) i might curse a little while removing the wallpaper but in the end you can change your neighbourhood but you can change cosmetics
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  • If you plan to live in this home for the duration of your kids' childhood, this is a "no-brainer!"

    Choice A! 

    You have to really consider the things that you CAN'T change when purchasing a home.  You can't change location and it sounds like this location has it all.  Close to work, good schools, great perks, close to family.  It is more expensive because of the one factor you can't "remodel"--location!

    You can make home A just as pretty and "new" as the other house--and enjoy the benefits of a great location! 

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  • Location location location.

    You can make cosmetic changes to a house, but you can't change where it is located.

     

  • A.  Location is everything.  If your kids are already settled in the district and it's the better school district, you might as well stay.  Plus it seems to have everything else going for it, short of needing some updating.  EVERY house needs updating eventually.  Like others have mentioned, there are some things that can never be changed and location is one of them.

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    Location location location.

    You can make cosmetic changes to a house, but you can't change where it is located.

    This exactly.  We puchased a home in a fantastic neighborhood.  However, the house needed (and still needs) SO much work. If the first house needs some work, maybe you can get it at a great price?  Our house showed horribly inside and out.  There were so many plants that were overgown, the inside of the house needed so much work, there needed to be new flooring throughout (there was none), etc.  Structurally it was in fantastic shape but cosmetically it left a lot to be desired.  We have the ability to do most of the work ourselves and could see the potential.  We offered 80% of the list price and they agreed.  It was a great way to build equity and also get exactly what we wanted inside. 

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  • Thanks Ladies!  I know you're right.  I just needed you all to remind me because I love the inside of the other one so much.
  • House A --- Save first and then do the updates/changes/renovations as you can - one at a time. You CAN live with it as it is until you can take care of the cosmetics.

    You can re-paint - that is cheap.  You want to compare costs, taxes and utilities of both houses.  LOCATION, LOCATION, LOCATION is the first rule of real estate.

    You do not mention price and how it fits into your budget.  Rule of thumb:  House is 25-28% of your TAKEHOME pay. (that is mortgage+PMI+taxes+insurance+utilities+HOA)  Less if you have alot of other debt (credit cards, cars, student loans - other debt) 

    30-35% in a HCOL area.

      

  • I would do Choice #1 - you can always take your time and finish cosmetic stuff
  • Can you really chose to go to a school if you're not actually in the right area?  I remember some kids did that when I was growing up, but they had to pay thousands.  If you do pick #2, be 100% certain of that first!
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  • Choice A, unless it's over your comfortable budget.
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  • All the districts in this state (MN) have open enrollment.  There is no cost, the only thing is you have to provide transportation if you're out of the district area.
  • House A.  
  • House A...

    Even if you have school of choice, it's nice to live in the neighborhood of the schools your children will be attending so that their neighborhood friends will be going to school with them.

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