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Another one bites the dust

PantsOffDanceOffPantsOffDanceOff
in North Florida Nesties

I'm sitting here in the same thing I've had on all day, with a puffy face and a bottle of wine. I guess I'll just come out and say that I'm getting a divorce.

After loving this man and devoting ten years of my life to this relationship, I NEVER thought I would say that. Unfortunately, my STBXH has done something that is a deal breaker for me. I'd rather not get into the details, no he did not cheat.

My heart and my spirit is broken and I know I will get through this but it's so hard for me to picture myself in a different life.

I appreciate all of your support as you've seen me struggle this last year. All I can say is that it's time for me to get my happy back.

I will be attending Book Club and please don't give me any sympathy or pity because I just want to have a good time with some lovely ladies. No more crying at Book Club :)

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  • MaryJaneWatzMaryJaneWatz
    Pants, I wish I could give you a big hug right now.  I'm sorry you're going through this but I'm sure you're making the best decision for you. If you ever do want to talk about what happened I'm here for you. 
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  • ashleemwashleemw

    I'm sorry, Pants. I don't know what to say :(

    We'll have a great time Tuesday. 

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  • Kristin&Kelly09Kristin&Kelly09 member
    Oh Pants, I am so sorry to hear this.  We are all here for you.  I hope the other ladies are able to help you have a great time at book club this week.  (((hugs)))
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  • Soon2BMrsSikesSoon2BMrsSikes
    Oh Pants, I'm so sorry. I know you tried so hard and for so long to make this work. Big hugs lady. 
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  • chinchilla fiestachinchilla fiesta member
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    I'm so sorry.  I'm thinking about you and just know we're here if you need to talk.
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  • LXLXLXLX

    I'm sorry. Crying

    Lots of thoughts your way right now and lots of happy hour wine on Tuesday.

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  • LoonyLunaLovegoodLoonyLunaLovegood
    Oh Pants, I'm so sorry. I know you've been trying for a while now. Obviously all of us are here for you, this board has been a wonderful place of support for me and I'm sure it will be for you too. ((hugs))
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  • clseale13clseale13
    I'm so sorry, Pants. You deserve so much happiness and even though you have to go through this heartbreak, I'm glad you're on your way to finding it. I'm thinking of you. Please let us know if there's anything we can do. ((Hugs)) 
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  • ClaireDunphyClaireDunphy
    I am so sorry, Pants. You know I'm here for you. We should do dinner soon. 
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  • Kristin&AdamKristin&Adam
    I'm so sorry, I hope you are happy again soon.
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  • MadisenMadisen
    You're a strong, smart woman with a great career.  You've got tons of life ahead of you and will get through this. *hugs*
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  • gullterregullterre member
    Broken Heart  So sorry....and as someone who has never met any of you ladies my heart still breaks when I hear you going through hardship.  Lean on your local girls for help and support.....I hope you find that happy you mentioned very soon.
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  • navybaby1113navybaby1113
    I'm so sorry.  *Hugs*
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  • jenhappyjenhappy
    I am so sorry to hear this. I know you have worked through so much. You are such a strong woman but don't hesitate to ask for help or just an ear. I will be thinking of you for sure.
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  • luckyinlove11902luckyinlove11902
    Wow Pants. I'm so sorry to hear this. I can only echo PPs and say that you have been incredibly strong, and I know you will continue to do so. You will get through this and definitely find your happy. I'm here for you any time so please don't hesitate to reach out. We will make sure to give you a super fun night at book club. ::hugs::
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  • MartizaMartiza
    I am sorry. I know you will find happy through this. Hope you have a great time tomorrow night.
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  • nikipizzonikipizzo
    So sorry to hear.  Ditto the other ladies - you'll get through this and there will be happiness on the other side.  Lots of hugs!
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  • PantsOffDanceOffPantsOffDanceOff
    Thank you guys. I really appreciate your kind words.
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  • Mrs_W_PookieMrs_W_Pookie
    I'm sorry you are going through this.  I have to reflect everyone's sentiments in that you are a strong woman and will get through this to find yourself happy again.
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  • mon.petit.choumon.petit.chou member
    Seventh Anniversary
    I'm so sorry that it had to come to this. I know you were devoted to making it work. *Hugs*
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  • duncanpowersduncanpowers
    You are so strong and did everything you can humanly do without taking over his brain and body and feelings. I'm very sorry that he wasn't up to the task of handling an awesome person like you. We're all here for you.
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  • dollfinn19dollfinn19
    Sorry to hear that.  But you know what's best for you, and you should do it.  You are a strong woman, and I definitely wish you the best!
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  • +jennasue++jennasue+ member
    Right HugLeft Hug Echoing what the others have said. I'm so sorry.
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  • alwaysfarealwaysfare
    I'm so sorry. I know it couldn't have been easy coming to this decision. Best of luck to you.
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