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f/u weaning

I've decided that I am not going to actively wean. I went to breast feeding group tonight for some support and to ask questions and I feel so confident in my decision. I'm just going to let him lead me. I'm still quitting the pump sometime in November. And we will still nurse morning, evening, and all through the night during the week and nurse all weekend.

I'm just really excited and relieved...I've been so nervous about this transition.

Re: f/u weaning

  • I'm glad you were able to get support & advice! I'm nervous about breastfeeding, I plan to try to exclusively breastfeed Layla, and I know I'll have plenty of support from MH and my BFF, but my mom never breastfed, nor have any of my in-laws... there is a support group up here, but it's run by a woman from town whom I can't stand so I won't be looking for help there... but still the whole thing makes me nervous, granted I know it's natural and the best thing for her, but still. 
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  • It sounds like you have come up with a great plan, and most importantly it seems to be the best decision for you and Abe, and that's the most important thing. Now that I'm in the thick of it, I've realized that nursing really is not a "one size fits all" thing, and every mom and baby have to do what is best for them. It's awesome that you've made it almost a year  and I'm sure Abe appreciates all your hard work!
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    , I've realized that nursing really is not a "one size fits all" thing, and every mom and baby have to do what is best for them. It's awesome that you've made it almost a year  and I'm sure Abe appreciates all your hard work!

     

    This exactly!  Abby went on a nursing strike at 5 months or so and we never really made that long term bonding experience. Abe is very lucky to have you for a mommy :-)

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  • The great thing about it is that what works for you and Abe is the right thing to do ... and I'm glad you feel confident that this decision is the right thing to do! It's got to be a relief. 
  • kudos to you mumma for following Abe's lead and providing him all you can :)
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  • imageMrs.AngelKing:
    I'm glad you were able to get support & advice! I'm nervous about breastfeeding, I plan to try to exclusively breastfeed Layla, and I know I'll have plenty of support from MH and my BFF, but my mom never breastfed, nor have any of my in-laws... there is a support group up here, but it's run by a woman from town whom I can't stand so I won't be looking for help there... but still the whole thing makes me nervous, granted I know it's natural and the best thing for her, but still. 

    Having a good, educated, support group has been really helpful. And being committed...even if it is really tough. I love my lactation consultant!!

  • Glad you were able to get advise, sounds like a great plan!  We are doing the same thing (except I never pumped for Liam much).  He still nurses about 3-4 times a day, though I think he is starting to give up one of the sessions before nap time.  I am just following his lead as we go :)
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  • I'm glad you found a group to support you in your decision. I tried just one time one day to drop a session with R right before a year and it was so traumatic for both of us I knew I had to let it run its course.
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  • That's great that you feel great about your decision.  It's such a personal decision, and it may change and evolve as you go along - the important thing is that it feels right for you!  

    Angel, in addition to the lactation group, you could always check out your local La Leche League.  They can be a great and supportive resource for you both individually and in monthly groups.  I went to a few meetings when I was facing challenging breastfeeding issues, and found them to be very supportive and helpful.  This board is also a wealth of BF'ing knowledge, so definitely seek support here when you need it!

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      This board is also a wealth of BF'ing knowledge, so definitely seek support here when you need it!

    YES! I leaned on MA&CB a ton for breast feeding help and now I feel like I'm an "expert" too.

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      This board is also a wealth of BF'ing knowledge, so definitely seek support here when you need it!

    YES! I leaned on MA&CB a ton for breast feeding help and now I feel like I'm an "expert" too.

    This 110%! Any time that  I have felt frustrated or had a concern about breastfeeding, I've come on here and found great support through hearing about other Mom's experiences or looking back on previous discussions. I would also encourage you to speak with a couple of different lactation consultants at your hospital. I didn't have a great connection with the LC that was on duty when I had Will (she was very nice and gentle, we just didn't have any chemistry), but when I went back in for a secondary consult and a concern about thrush, I met with another consultant that I LOVED and I still call her with concerns. 

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