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XP from TB: Mothering fail

Yesterday while DD was lying on my lap quietly, I clipped her fingernails. No problem. Then I noticed one or two of mine were a little long, so I clipped them. I looked up and saw one of my fingernail clippings had landed in her eye!! Tongue Tied She blinked and it went onto her lower eyelid, so I tried to pull it away, but she blinked again and it went back onto her eye. Another blink and it disappeared beneath the lower lid. I sat there for a second in shock, then called the university children's clinic who said I had to call the optometry clinic (thankfully I live about a 10 min walk away from the university hospital complex!). They said to come in, so I did, but 2 doctors looked non-invasively and couldn't see anything. They assured me it had probably come out when I wasn't looking.

I went home. DH came home. He was doing tummy time with DD and I came out, looked at her, and gasped. The fingernail was once again visible right above her lower lid. Called the clinic again, went in, and it again took two doctors and a q-tip, but they finally got it out without needing to put her under (if they hadn't been able to get it out they would have had to). Thankfully it hadn't scratched her eye at all, which the drs said was a bit of a miracle, but she's now on antibiotic eyedrops for the next 5 days. 

Serious mothering fail. I felt horrible and am never clipping my nails around her again.
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  • Glad to hear that Baby is okay.

    Dont beat yourself about it. I am sure things like that happen to everyone.

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  • Don't worry too much. I'm sure every parent's first years are filled with these kind of lessons. Apparently the first time my dad clipped my fingernails when I was a baby, he went too short and my fingers were bleeding for awhile. He never did it again!

    Glad it was just a close call and that everything's ok now.

     

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  • Who would have thought THAT would happen??? But at least you were super proactive Mom and took care of it right away! I am glad your baby is ok. And def don't beat yourself up about it, that could happen to anyone.

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  • Awwwww! Don't beat yourself up about it. I clipped DS's fingernails once and pinched the skin. He bled, I cried, he didnt cry. He didn't even notice it. If I need to clip his nails now, I use a nail file and file them down.
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  • You did the right thing by calling the clinic, and bringing her there twice to solve the problem.  I can't even begin to imagine all the things that can happen when you have a baby that you never thought about.  What were the odds that a nail would fall into her eye? 
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  • That would have NEVER occurred to me as a possibility.  Seriously, the odds for that to occur must be 0.0001%.  You did a great job and were pro-active.  I say mothering well done!

     

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  • I can't believe that this happened! Sounds like you dealt with it well and so did your DD!  I'm sure I'd of done a bit more freaking out.

    Glad to hear that she's doing well. 

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    That would have NEVER occurred to me as a possibility.  Seriously, the odds for that to occur must be 0.0001%.  You did a great job and were pro-active.  I say mothering well done!

    ITA! 

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  • The chances of that happening are so slim, don't beat yourself up.  Glad she's ok now!
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  • Ha! What are the chances?

    Glad everything worked out and that she didn't get any scratches. You did everything right.

  • Thanks, ladies, you're making me feel better. I thought maybe this was something that no mother in her right mind would do - clip her nails right next to her child. I'm glad to hear I'm not alone in never even thinking that a piece might fly into her eye! At least it never actually seemed to bother her (except when the one doctor and I had to hold her still while the second doctor tried to get it out), otherwise I would have felt a million times worse.
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  • Don?t beat yourself up! I?ve cut my own nails while doing hers, and it never occured to me that the clippings might get in her eye. Glad that everything is ok and that they could get it out. No mothering fail on your part.
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