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How often do you talk to DH/SO?[Poll]

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Re: Husband Poll
We do not normally talk on the phone at work. Sometimes we'll IM on gchat if he has a slow day (kids taking a test or just doing review work). If I know he's getting home from work before me, I'll call him on my way home to let him know when I'll be there. He does not call on his way home usually.
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He calls me at work when he is on his way into work around noon. Normally this is it for the day. He can text alittle easier at work than calling. Where he is in NYC, there are cameras all around so the last thing he wants is NYPD seeing him on the phone all the time. If its really important, i text him so and ask him to call. But normally i wont hear from him until he is home and i'm asleep at that point.
I votes SS too, cause DH works midnight to 8am. So, we basically don't talk at all while he's working unless I need to call him in the morning when I wake up and have him pick me up something on his way home from work.
However, when he was on day tours we really didn't talk at all unless there was something important that couldn't wait until we got home. And it was usually a convo via text too.
I voted SS.
He works 10pm-6am so I speak to him before I go to bed but that is it. I usually call once in the morning from work to see how DD is but not always. He doesn't text or email.
THIS!!
He will call or text when he is leaving for work or on the way home.
I wont call him while he is working because with my luck he will be chasing someone!!!!
SS: when DH worked, he had 3 days on the street and 2 paperwork days. We'd talk a couple of times a day- he'd always let me know he got to/from work safely. We would talk whenever we wanted/needed to on paperwork days, less often on street days.
Now that he's home, he blows up my phone when I'm at work. He needs to learn some boundaries, but it's cute (almost). I think it's going to get worse once my maternity leave is over and he officially becomes a SAHD
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