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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Re: FFFC time!
Shower sex, crazy.
Mine is lame. I'm secretly happy that I didn't have time to get a manicure today so that I can go tomorrow with my mom and she will pay.
I think 99% of the thoughts I've had today of things to do to my ex-h after finding out what I did are flameful. Some are also worthy of jail time.
Ooo - can I have more than one?
Just got some information about XH from a friend last night that's really chapping my a$$ today! He and his *girlfriend* (the woman I used to think was a friend of mine until she started sleeping with my X while we were trying to work things out) are moving in together. WHAT A BUNCH OF JAGALOONS! Seriously, it just pisses me off that he's with that woman still, when supposedly all he wanted was to be single and free so he could live a crazy bachelor life. To top it off, I was at this event with my friend and some guy I've never met before mistakenly called me Valerie -- not even close to my name, but happens to be the OW's name. Nice!
Also, I'm so tired of online dating -- I've been contacting a ton of people, and I just don't get any responses from anyone I'm at all interested in. It's so frustrating! I wish I had more ways to meet nice guys - I'm working on that...
I'm so freaking over running my own business right now... sometimes, it would be nice to work a 9-5 job and have my weekends off... Weekend? what the F*CK are those? I can't wait till the slow season, but then I'll be freaking out that I won't have enough income to live off of until the busy season starts again. But that's bull too... I have plenty, it's just scary doing this w/o the back-up of a husband's job. Oh well...
Another one, My exH finally transferred the $$ from his IRA into mine per the divorce decree... it made mine triple... hehe. It was completely fair according the law, but it's so nice to see my retirement fund explode like that!
Last one, I found out that he still has our wedding pics hanging in the house and his GF of about 9 months has not discussed this with him or the fact that she found some of our sex toys (which I completely forgot since that was the thing on my mind as I left) under the bed. Communicate much?
They see us rollin'...they be hatin'.
I'm sure this must be totally frustrating, but I just want to say how much I admire you for starting and running your own successful business.
Thank you so much... I really appreciate hearing that. Sometimes I sit think "Wow, I really did it, didn't I?" It's worth it, but I have a feeling I'll have to make a career change in the next few years... the work/life balance isn't very good right now...
To preface this FFFC, I will put it out there that I love my mom more than words. That being said, she is kind of a Debbie Downer. I'm trying to do things that I enjoy to, in a roundabout way, better myself. I sincerely enjoy baking-especially with a few glasses of wine! The other day I mentioned that I wanted to bake some crazy brownies I found on Pinterest. She scoffed, rolled her eyes and then looked at me like I was half crazy. She's always been like this so I'm not sure why I surprised but it still hurt and I'm just over it already.
Second, I'm slightly miffed with with my other bff. I've been trying to contact her for weeks (literally) and am getting more than frustrated. Every.single.time she gets back together with her bf she completely cuts off contact with everyone then as soon as he up and leaves again, she comes back to earth and calls for comfort. Don't get me wrong, she has been there for me through all of my bs and I intend to stick by her but I'm getting tired of her shutting me out because of this.