Starting Over
Dear Community,

Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.

If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.

Thank you.

Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.

In Retrospect

I've been out of my house with my STBXH for only about a week.  We decided to get divorced about 3 months ago... separated 2x before then.  I was one of those girls that discovered things over and over and over again, and gave him another chance over and over and over again.  And now, that I'm out of the house and facing my future, all I can think is why?  Why did I find it so hard and wait so long to do what's right for me??  I am so excited for the possibilities of my future.  Why did I keep trying to convince myself the guy that ran around my back over and over was really a "nice" guy??  The future really looks wide open.  I'm feeling stronger than I have in a long time.  I know I'll have hard days, but I think I did most of my grieving while I was still in my marriage.  I am SO ready for the next step!!

Re: In Retrospect

  • Congrats! You seem like you have your head in the right place and you are right: it's not going to be rosy red every day! But here is moving onward and upward! Drinks
    2011 Races
    3/12 5 mi -- 49:22 Pace: 9:52
    5/1 Half Marathon -- 2:11:22 Pace: 10:01
    5/22 10k -- 56:29 Pace: 9:00
    5/24 3.6 -- 29:03 Pace: 8:18
    7/10 15k -- 1:44:46 injured Pace: 11:14
    10/29 5k -- 28:24 Pace: 9:04
  • here's to you and a bright future! Drinks
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