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DH's idea...
Last week DH said there was something he wanted me to do, and it would help me too. What was it? He had found something on the internet that if I listened to it every 2 hours every day for about 6 weeks it would make my boobs bigger. The thing I would be listening to subliminally was a baby crying. I said no. To me, that doesn;t sound like a natural/safe way to make boobs bigger.
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Re: DH's idea...
ITA! I hope he was joking, but if not I'm giving him the side eye for even suggesting this to you.
I am curious about how he thinks this is going to help you. Have you ever mentioned that you wished your boobs were bigger or your current cup size makes you self conscious in any way?
Regardless... listening to a baby cry via the internet doesn't sound like a legit way to increase the size of your breasts.
If it's something you want for yourself, then look into surgery... or a good wonderbra. If your husband is being a douche and pushing this on you without you ever bringing it up, then I vote you tell him to STFU and revoke his boob privlages for a few days. If he can't appreciate what you've got then he doesn't get to play with them.
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This.
This
1.) Really? I mean Really? I hope to god he was joking. I just want too...I just...does he not understand anything about human biology?
2.) If he WAS serious, I would punch him in his baby-maker. For reals.
This made me laugh. But I totally agree!
1? are there natural safe ways to make your boobs bigger?
2? how does your DH think this will help you too?
3? what were his reasons for wanting you to have bigger boobs?
A. That's not possible
B. Side eye to him for being such a dunce to say such a thing
C. Double side eye for not liking you the way you are... if he meant it that way. If not and he was just being a dummy head, then just a whack on the head for being a dummy head.
I am also curious if this was just out of the blue or if you'd mentioned wishing for bigger boobs in passing before now. It's a pretty asshat thing to say just out of nowhere, even if it was a joke.
And even worse... does he actually believe this would work? For realz?
1. My boobs are really small and I have mentioned that it would be nice if I were blessed with at B-cup boobs. But I'm fine with the way I am.
2. I made DH come off as more of an idiot than he is. He usually is fine with the size of my boobs. I wasn't mad at him or anything for suggesting it, I just found it weird...
3. I guess there is no "safe" way for bigger boobs anyways.
Depends... getting pregnant has definitely made them fuller, in my experience.
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People generally don't go around getting pregnant for the sole reason of bigger boobs.
I rock A-cups. My husband is always fine with the size of my boobs. Not just "usually". He would never in a million years suggest I do anything to change them-let alone listen to some bogus tape.
Regardless of how many times you did mention the size of them, I, personally, don't think it's cool for your husband to suggest that to you. It comes off saying,"I'm gonna say I don't mind the size-but here's an idea to help us both out." Um...screw that. Sorry.
It's weird, rude, and quite frankly, I'd sexile my hubby for awhile for being so insensitive.
Sorry I didn't mean that she should get pregnant.. but meant it more along the lines of if she "would" someday that it may be a possibility. That was the reason I bolded #3.. because it is a SAFE way for them to be bigger...
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That is a good point. If I'm lucky enough to get pregnant in a few years when we start trying, I'm expecting my boobs to get bigger. But of course I'm also expecting for them to go back to normal after I'm done having kids.
And if DH brings up this idea again, I'm going to tell him off!