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my first "good" morning
Yesterday I posted how a friend of mine said she and her DH had noticed my StbX emotional detachment towards me & the boys over the past few years- which made me so relieved : I am NOT imagining it!
Later that day, my sister (who lives 3,000 miles away) sent me an email with info on two houses for sale that are near my current home (same school district) and in (if not under) my price range (did I mention she lives 3000 miles away? - what a sweetie!)
Today was the first day I woke up in about 4 months without feeling terrible, sick to my stomach, depressed, and anxious. Which was impressive as I didn't sleep very well after having to jump out of bed at 1:30am when I awoke to the sound of running water - it was my 4 year old who came into my room but didn't make it to the bathroom so instead peed on the carpet). I realized I also skipped my morning Visine routine (though I keep some in my purse for any needed repair after crying).
so I'm feeling good. Well maybe not good.... but better.
one day at a time
Re: my first "good" morning
They see us rollin'...they be hatin'.
I'm glad you are having a good morning!! It is such a good feeling.
Good! It does get easier, one day at a time.
and now I'm off to re-think ever having a kid.. peed on the carpet? hhmm...
Congrats! Onwards and upwards