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Mind wondering in several d'rent directions
Hey girls,
I've not been on here in such a long while. But I'm in need of some advice or maybe just someone to listen. Either is fine. I have been dating this guy for about six months now and we get along great. He lives in a differnt city than me, but bcus he works at nite on the weekends, I normally spend the nite with him. Here's what has my mind wondering all over the place..... He is a cop. So, of course he knows a lot of women and granted he had a life before me, however he has REALLY friendly txt exchange with his female friends. A few months ago he askd if i wanted to move in with him when my lease was up (6 months from now). Not sure where our relationship will be then, but at the rate it going...maybe. But then I begin thinking about these exchange of txt between him and the female friends. But then again, I was thinking well if he asked me to live with him that would just lessen his chances of all the texting, bt then again he might just come up with more creative ways of doing it.....I don't know what to think
Re: Mind wondering in several d'rent directions
If it bothers you then you need to say something.
How friendly is really friendly? Like "hey babe what's up" or "hey I'd like to see you naked without your uniform" kind of texts?
No, the test was from someone that asked hin to come over and check a water heater or something and when he never called or texted her back she txt him and said be careful how you treat friends you never know how you might need me... or something along those lines....
We're kind of going out.
Agreed. I don't see anything wrong with that text message.
Melinda,
Thanks, I got my laugh for the day and it made me feel great!!! I absolutely love your siggy!
I'd let him know that it bothers you.
My StbX did similar things which I let go but then it escalated quickly (next he took her out to dinner (I'm not invited) met her at bars (I'm not invited), took her and others to an amusement park (I'm not invited) then asked me if it was okay that he shares a hotel with her while on business to save $$.
Sapphire,
That's just my point exactly. I'd rather stop it now, if there is something going on, I'd rather nip it in the bud, move on, etc.. I just hate to waste more of my time with someone else....