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Trainwreck fo' realz
XH started sh!t in email today when we had to coordinate a Jewish divorce. In the course of emails (I know I shouldn't have responded) he told me to get tested (already did), I said I wasn't worried because he only got off to hookers at massage parlors, he said it's because I have a fat ass, that I'm a loser without a job who lives with my parents. That's when I dropped the bomb that I'm working for the recruitment company who placed him at his job and he freaked out, knowing that my bosses have been friends with his boss for 20+ years and one word out of my mouth and he's flipping burgers without a law license to his name.
Then he said he hates me and that he's going to start a suit in MA to recover half the value of my whopper of an engagement ring that he gave to me in the property settlement agreement (nevermind this and his lack of jurisdiction in MA). My atty already called his atty who called him to tell him to stop before there's a TRO slapped on his sorry self...he already apologized.
I'm thanking everything that is holy right now that today is my Friday and I'm going away to AZ for the weekend tomorrow! ::deep breaths and smiles that I have therapy on Monday::
Re: Trainwreck fo' realz
Reply to him with this:
Everything he said to you was about HIM and not you. He is totally freaking out and he should be!
Have fun.. I am so jealous that today is your Friday!
Don't worry, he managed to blame me in the process. He said he wishes I never stopped him on the steet to pet his dog (how we met). Ehh, whatever.
I ditto the stop communication. I like pbears card as well. Good luck on the NJ bar as well.
This one gets a big ole
from me!
Phoenix-staying at the Biltmore!
A divorce under Jewish law. It's required if you signed a Jewih marriage contract (ketubah) and wish to get married again one day. Thankfully it only involves him signing a paper then me signing it and filing it with the rabbinical court.
Yea totally don't engage. Although I know it's really hard not to. My ex posted a hate video about me to youtube and sent it to me. I watched it once, shrugged my shoulders and was thankful for the reminder of why I divorced him and moved on about my day. I promise you'll get to that point as well.
ETA: To the point where you don't care. Not getting a video posted:)
Stop engaging with him unless it's through your attorneys. No good will come of it.
And that postcard is AWESOME!
I agree with PP - at least you know that the divorce is the right thing! Yay for AZ!