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S/O used clothing/ hand me downs

The post below got me thinking of the hand me down clothing I received as a kid. I always received my older cousins clothing. They were 10 years older than me and by the time I received the clothing it was out of style. Im talking about the 80s vs the 90s, so you know there were major differences in clothing styles at that point. I always felt bad about it too, because they were being nice. Some of the clothing could work and other times it was clearly a no go situation.

Did you ever receive hand me downs? Whose clothes were they previously? What was the age difference?
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  • I wore hand me downs all the time. Thanks to having an older sister and lots of older cousins, there never seemed to be a shortage of hand me downs coming our way!
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  • I've never had hand me downs.  I had an older brother and my cousins were always on the chubby side--I was stick thin as a kid. Sucked for my parents I'm sure but I was always stylin' in new duds
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  • We used to get hand me downs sometimes. Some were from cousins - others from friends of my mom. We always loved to get them. Even if they weren't quite our style it was fun to get new stuff.
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  • I received a lot of hand me downs as a kid. I have a lot of female cousins who were a few years older than me, and I also received my older brother's clothes. I never cared if I wore a plain boys t-shirt or boys jeans. My jeans (I wore a lot of boys jeans that weren't hand me downs too) went to my younger brother when I grew out of them.
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  • I had an older sister but she was very small and I was very tall so none of her stuff really fit me.  My friends and I traded clothes a ton.  

    In kind of a related way I am currently OBSESSED with Craig's List.  When we moved home, we had to furnish an entire house so pretty much everything is coming from Craig's List or friends are giving us stuff.  I've found the hunt for the right piece we're looking for in the right price range to be thrilling.  I haven't spent more than $500 and furnished almost our entire house. 

  • Sadly I never got any hand me downs, I was the eldest in our family and our extended family but I do know that my clothes went everywhere even to my cousin who was 12 years younger than me, considering I grew up in the 80's when my mother made most of my clothes with big sailor lace collars I am not sure how much she wanted them.
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  • I never had hand me downs, I have an older brother and no other close female family members, but I have handed down my baby clothes to dd, and she has several of my baby outfits and wears them. I like to refer to them as vintage instead of hand me downs :) 

    I totally see the appeal of consignment shopping, I am personally not a big fan because I hate rummaging through stuff (I don't even like stores like TJ Maxx for this reason) and we have received so many new outfits as gifts for her that she won't need clothes til she is like 10. 

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  • I didn't get hand me downs. I'm the only child. I would sometimes trade clothes with my cousins, though. 

    I agree with fricb, I hate rummaging through stuff. I'm not much of a shopper or bargain-finder, I just want to get in and out of stores.  

  • I had tow older brothers and I got some gender-neutral stuff from them. I got some from an older cousin too, but she didn't live very close, so not very often. I got a lot from Goodwill/consignment, though. My brothers and cousin were 3-4 years older so it wasn't a huge difference. I was never at the height of fashion awesomeness, but I wasn't one that cared about that anyway.
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  • I had a cousin who was four years older than me who I got clothing from.  Her family had LOADS of money so a lot of it was designer, which was nice as I had a full scholarship to an expensive private school and it helped me feel like I fit a bit better.
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  • I got hand me downs from the daughter of my Mom's friend. She was a few years older than me and so cool. I loved when I would get that bag of clothes, I still remember an off the shoulder pink top that I got from her.

    Like frlcb, I also hate rummaging through racks of clothes. I can't even stand to be in a store that is disorganized and usually have to leave within minutes.

  • I never had hand me down clothes because I had two older brothers (one 9 years older, and one 16 years older), so nothing of theirs ever fit me.  Plus, I was a really fat kid, and they were both rails, so it really wouldn't have worked.
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  • I used to get hand me downs from my cousin, she was 4 years older than me.  They were then passed down to my younger sister and cousin.
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  • I got hand-me-downs from a friend of the family who was a year older than me.  Whenever I got the trash bag full of clothes it was exciting what I was going to get, but I didn't wear all of it.  Either not my style, or poor condition, or didn't fit right.
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  • I was in hand me downs whenever possible. But I was in quite a bit of new stuff, too. I think it mattered less when younger as the clothes were just going to get dirty anyways.

    I still wear hand me downs. Clothing trades, discards from friends, or even borrowing. Have a bunch of maternity shirts from friend that I need to return since they no longer fit the bust. And there's always room for a good deal from a consignment store.

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    I was in hand me downs whenever possible. But I was in quite a bit of new stuff, too. I think it mattered less when younger as the clothes were just going to get dirty anyways.

    I still wear hand me downs. Clothing trades, discards from friends, or even borrowing. Have a bunch of maternity shirts from friend that I need to return since they no longer fit the bust. And there's always room for a good deal from a consignment store.

    Hand me down maternity clothing is the best!!  My sister and I have a ton of stuff that we both bought and a friend gave her that we just share between each other.  I've only used it once, but my sister is on kid # 3.   

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