August 2009 Weddings
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What should I get?

So I'm going to a bridal shower on Sunday afternoon and I don't know what gift to get. It's for a close friend of mine and unfortunately she is not register anywhere and I feel tacky giving her money.

I was thinking of getting her some wall art. What do you think? Any ideas?

 

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Re: What should I get?

  • Wall art is pretty personal.  If you know her decorating style well, then go for it, but if not, it's iffy.

    I usually end up with some sort of kitchen gadget and a cookbook that suits the item.

    Stacking cooling racks?  Dessert cook book, and maybe a box of gourmet cookie mix or something.

    The shower I'm going to tomorrow will have a money tree instead of gifts.  ::insert eye roll::

     

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  • I'm personally not a fan of giving people art. It's such a personal thing and unless your sure about it may not be to their taste.

    This is coming from a person that received a 'interesting' portrait of myself that glowed in the dark O_O  ( I didn't know it glowed in the dark until at night when it scared the crap out of me)

    What about a gift card to somewhere, it's money but does show you that you were thinking about her.

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  • Ditto raynes and eeeva. I'd say wall art's tricky because everyone's taste is different. Unless you really know her style, I wouldn't go for that.

    Does she like to bake or cook? For a friend's shower, my friends and I put together a gift basket with recipes, baking essentials like measuring cups, some fun/novelty cookie cutters, even some mixes from Williams-Sonoma. I think the basket was some nested mixing bowls. She loved it.

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  • My favorite thing was my sheet sets. They're expensive, but everyone loves a good set of clean sheets. There's also a candle thing that people do, where each one is for a different thing. I can't think of the poem that goes along with it.
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  • Ditto everyone else on the art, I personally wouldn't. However if you know she wants to decorate, how about a set of black frames of varying sizes so she can start a photo wall? (Particularly since she'll eventually have lots of wedding photos to display!)

    Otherwise, some other suggestions: a set of towels, a magazine subscription for a hobby that they share (someone got us a year's worth of Bon Appetit magazine, we liked it so much that we've renewed it since), mixing bowls, martini glasses, picnic gear. It depends on what interests they have; if you could get something relevant to a hobby they share I think it would be great since they could use it together.

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  • This might just be a me type thing but I absolutely love pretty aprons! I wear mine all the time. I am not talking you typical aprons I am talking about pretty 50's style frilly ones that make you feel all house and home while standing in the kitchen.
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  • I also think something kitchen-y would be nice (if she likes to cook). For one bridal shower that I attended, I gave the bride an ice cream maker (which she had registered for) with different ice cream toppings, etc. For my shower I received a waffle maker with a breakfast cookbook. A non-kitchen gift that I received was a honeymoon basket. It had a bunch of travel sized items and was themed for a beach resort (with sunscreen, etc). If you know where she's going on her honeymoon something like that would work. I think something themed would be fun. 
  • Those are all great ideas! I like the idea of getting her a cookbook although I'm a bit hesitant about kitchen stuff because she just bought a house a few months ago and bought all the kitchen stuff she needed. 

    I think some nice frames for wedding pictures would be nice along with a cookbook.

    You guys are super helpful. Thank you! 

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  • Oh I love the honeymoon basket. I gave my friends some Rick Steves travel books for their trip to Italy. :)

     

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    Oh I love the honeymoon basket. I gave my friends some Rick Steves travel books for their trip to Italy. :)

     

    That's nice too! I'll see if I can find out where she is going.  

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  • My fall back position is always a picnic basket.  They are nice to have and not something that you would usually buy for yourself, but it may be hard to find them this time of year.

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