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what did u do with your ring?
STBXH has just decided that he needs my E ring back. I don't agree that I have to give it back. What did you do?
Re: what did u do with your ring?
XH didn't ask for it back and I didn't offer. I sold it!
Is it a family heirloom?
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3/12 5 mi -- 49:22 Pace: 9:52
5/1 Half Marathon -- 2:11:22 Pace: 10:01
5/22 10k -- 56:29 Pace: 9:00
5/24 3.6 -- 29:03 Pace: 8:18
7/10 15k -- 1:44:46 injured Pace: 11:14
10/29 5k -- 28:24 Pace: 9:04
Sold it for the gold
I don't think you have to give it back. wtf does he want it for
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My rings are included in the PSA as mine. My attorney stated that I fulfilled the promise of the e-ring to marry him, and sealed that promise of the wedding band so they are mine. He originally asked if we could pawn them and split the $ because he spent wayyy too much them.
ETA: I am the one who left, but that wasn't a factor in our case.
Still have them, unfortunately. Divorce ended 4 years ago.
I tried to sell them, but wasn't offered even a fractions of what we paid for them.
I tried to give the rings back, but he wouldn't take them. I think in Texas ( I could be wrong) but if one breaks the engagement off, the e ring should be given back, BUT if the wedding does occur the e ring is the woman's to keep.
They see us rollin'...they be hatin'.
he had a condo he bought in 1999 for about 58K. We refinanced it in 2002 and put my name on the mortgage and took out cash for a down payment on a new house. We also used some of that money for my ering.
I kept my ering and put the diamond into a pendant that I will give to DD when she graduates from college. Providing I don't lose it as I wear it almost everyday.
I sold the setting and my wedding band. that was just a plain platinum band.
For real? Not judging, just curious to how it doesn't bother you.
My x wears his band on his right hand and it makes me sick when I see it. Personally, that ring meant our marriage, so I find it a little awkward to see it still worn when we aren't married. He even admits that he likes to wear it now for the bling, not for what it meant
i kept mine, going to sell it to put towards the funds for the garage BF is building for me since he's doing that and is going to be buying a ring sometime as well.
we won't get close to what EXH paid for it, but that's just the bad part about the diamond industry. It would bother BF if i kept it and had it reset as something else because he sees it as something that was symbolic of my old marriage, i just see it as a pretty diamond.
It doesn't bother me cause the marriage is over and the ring is just a pretty expensive bauble. I can't get what it's worth via sale so might as well wear it on my right hand.
I guess the thing is that I am not bitterly and angrily divorcing so I don't have all these feelings tied up in rings and other shyt. He cheated, we're done, goodbye, pretty ring.