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I finally said it...I want a divorce ..
So, DH & I had therapy on Sat morning and the air in the room was THICK as HELL! The therapist said .. ok, how have thigns been the past 2 wks... and DH said ... same .. not much has changed... and therapist looked at me and I said... I can't do this anymore - the 1st session made me realize that I have no desire to be in the marriage anymore and I want a divorce. It was incredibly sad, in fact I am crying as I type this... but it had to be said. I couldn't bear to go on acting like things could change when I knew in my heart it was over! DH cried and called me selfish... but I do believe he is grieving the loss more for our son than for losing me. We have not had a marital relationship in yrs, so what is there to miss, really? So, afterwards he is now acting like nothing happened... just going about our days since we have to live together because of our finances and until we can sell our house. Now after he has had some time to digest, we have to have the discussion about our house, finances, etc...ugh. It will be tough, but I swear, if I can make it through this... I can make it through anything! Thank God for this board and you ladies .. you are all so supportive and give great advice!
Re: I finally said it...I want a divorce ..
The first step is the hardest but you needed to do it
Agreed. Kudos to you for doing what had to be done.