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WWND?

So... admittedly I've been pretty hard up for some dating action lately (as you probably can gather from my frustrated posts), but then on Saturday night at the party we went to I talked up a guy for a while, and we were both clearly interested in one another.  He had to rush out fairly quickly because the people he came with were leaving -- he asked for my phone number and I gave it to him, he dialed the number (it looked like it was calling me) then saved it to his phone.  When I got to my phone later, no missed call - I thought this was weird, but maybe he didn't actually dial me afterall, whatevs.  At any rate, I still haven't heard from him and am thinking maybe he took my number down wrong.  Should I try to track him down thru mutual friends, or is that weird?  I'd really like to be able to finish our conversation, but I also don't want him to think I'm nuts for tracking him down.  Advice, please!

Re: WWND?

  • If he is at all interested, he'll call you. 
    I've seen a lot of military surprise homecomings. It wouldn't work on me. I always have my back to the corner and my face to the door. Looking for terrorists, criminals, various other threats, and husbands.
  • If you rally think you gave the wrong number then get in touch. If he blows you off then, forget him.
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  • This same thing happened to me once....I was in NYC and met a really cool guy, gave him my number, he called it but I had no missed call...figured it was a lost cause but the next day he called me. I think if you put a number in your phone it saves it so I wouldn't be worried. Give it some time.
  • Tracking him down makes you look really, really desperate.

    If he calls he calls.

  • This post also reminds me of the episode of How I Met Your Mother (which I saw last night) where one of the guys finds his 'dream' girl by looking for the slutty pumpkin...

    http://tvrecaps.ew.com/recap/how-i-met-your-mother-slutty-pumpkin/

     

    he tracked her down because he saw the slutty pumpkin costume in a store window and asked the owner if he had a ledger of who rented it. lol the guy said he did and that he had 2 marriage proposals from people tracking people down this way and 5 missing persons, but prefers to focus on the positive. lol

  • Hm. Can't he contact those same friends you would contact and find you if it's something he wants to do? I wouldn't do a damn thing.
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  • I agree with everyone else.  Dating is hard!  I firmly believe that there are no such things as mixed signals if a guy is interested. 
  • imageDerniermot:

    Tracking him down makes you look really, really desperate.

    If he calls he calls.

    I agree with this.  My friend really really thinks I should try tracking him down, and I feel like that just appears (and also feels to me) desperate. 

  • imageButternutSquash:
    Hm. Can't he contact those same friends you would contact and find you if it's something he wants to do?

    This. He could get ahold of these friends if he wanted to. GL!!

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  • imagedmarie979:

    imageButternutSquash:
    Hm. Can't he contact those same friends you would contact and find you if it's something he wants to do?

    This. He could get ahold of these friends if he wanted to. GL!!

    This is my vote too. 

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