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I'm noticing boys again.

It's kind of nice.

There is a guy who works in the office across the building from me and we say hi and chat in the kitchen, etc.  He's a geek (network administrator) but a cute geek (and TALL), and I didn't even know his name, so I looked him up on LinkedIn.  And tried to find out how old he was by doing a google search. lol.  Pretty harmless, right? 

So the next day I'm in the kitchen and he comes in and I casually say "hey, I realized I don't even know your name [I totally did at that point]. I'm gault"  and we exchanged names.  A week or two passed and he was a little less talkative and less friendly. I was all, hmm.  Eh, maybe he's got something else on his mind than the random person he meets in the kitchen.

It wasn't until about a week after that I realized... people can track who viewed them on LinkedIn.   Either I am totally overthinking it, or he is repulsed by the crazy chick in his building who cyber-stalked him and pretended not to. lol

 

I COULD be overthinking it. Just a little.

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Re: I'm noticing boys again.

  • Oooh that's interesting about LinkedIn! It's a good thing FB doesn't tell you such things or some super random people I haven't talked to in over a decade would be creeped out on the regular.

    I am happy you are noticing boys! Now quit creeping on them and just meet them for real!

    <3

    - namaste mothafockaaaas - image
  • bbe, you can set your LinkedIn profile so people only see it as a generic "person" who viewed their profile, and not you specifically.  I hadn't done that.  oop!

    I dunno. I don't know if I'm ready.  Plus I'm still, well, big.  It's hard to date in Cali when you're a chubster. 

     

     

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  • Maybe he already has a girlfriend? Do you know anything about him other than the fact that he works for your same company? I think you're thinking too much about this when you have very little information. People act in a lot of ways based on what their going through in their life. He may be stressed at work, he may have a girlfriend or something may have happened outside of work to impact his mood.
  • Lunch! or Coffee!

    Casual, of course.

    Oh, are you eating now? Me too. Care to join me?  Wink

    I agree with everything that muddled said. You should listen to her. -ESDReturns
  • Do you watch HIMYM?

    This reminds me of the episode where Ted went on a date and they promised each other they wouldn't do any online research before the actual date.

  • imageBeebeeEater:

    Oooh that's interesting about LinkedIn! It's a good thing FB doesn't tell you such things or some super random people I haven't talked to in over a decade would be creeped out on the regular.

    I am happy you are noticing boys! Now quit creeping on them and just meet them for real!

    <3

    All of this :-)

  • imagedoglove:
    Maybe he already has a girlfriend? Do you know anything about him other than the fact that he works for your same company? I think you're thinking too much about this when you have very little information. People act in a lot of ways based on what their going through in their life. He may be stressed at work, he may have a girlfriend or something may have happened outside of work to impact his mood.

    Don't worry, I'm not stressing on it. I'm guessing he does have a girlfriend - from what I've seen, he texts more than any single dude I know. :)

    I took a peek at my old profile from okcupid, and a dude had apparently messaged me this morning asking what my favorite fuzzy animal is.  Slim pickins out there.

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  • What the hell happened with LDG dude?

    pm me if you want.

     

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    Yeah that's right my name's Yauch!
  • I'm so glad you're back!

     

    Short version: He had Peter Pan syndrome, despite very small efforts on his part and large efforts on my part to get over it. lol

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