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Now I want to talk about BJs! :)
I have a friend who absolutely freaks (apparently...I've never been there, she has just told me) when her SO even touches her head when she's giving him a BJ.
She finds it "so disrespectful" and says that she can do it without his help. LOL
I, on the other hand, don't mind.
What say you?
Re: Now I want to talk about BJs! :)
I don't mind unless it's forceful
We're kind of going out.
Well, yeah. Nothing rough and rude.
I don't mind my head being touched...sometimes it's the closet part of my body he can reach while I'm down there. I want to know he's into it, and if that means touching my head, go for it!
On the other hand, if you want to shove my head down in that direction, no thanks. If I want to give you a BJ, I'll do it on my own terms
I feel totally the opposite (of your friend, VaaaJ). I feel like it means he's saying "thank you" with his hands haha
But just some hair petting and stuff. No shoving, ha!
I don't mind. I know I'm involved with someone who cares about and respects me. I know that if I'm ever uncomfortable with anything that's happening, all I have to do is say so, and it stops - no further questions. If I didn't trust him, I'd probably freak out if he grabbed my head (getting all freaked out over having someone just touch my head while in the act seems like an overreaction). But I do, so it's a non-issue.
Then again, precious little bothers me. I'm hard to scare and harder to hurt.
So we beat on, boats against the current, borne back ceaselessly into the past.
I don't mind that...I just see it as a sign of him being really into it. I do the same when I'm receiving and I just want him to slightly change his position or pressure.
In general, I want to be with someone I feel completely comfortable and uninhibited with sexually. I did not feel that way at all with my XH, but since I've begun dating again, I've met someone who has unleashed that side of me. And even though it didn't work out, I now know it's possible and I can't imagine being in a relationship without it!
Once again, I'm with Zelda.
I don't mind. I like it dirty though, and SO is respectful. If I told him to cut something out, he would.
I don't mind him petting my head (which sounds so wrong, but you know what I mean), but I detest having my head shoved down farther. Um, you want to engage my gag reflex? Really?
THIS - 100%!
Same for me. Never experienced it but I think it would be hot.
Just touching my head? Doesn't bother me.
Moving, shoving or being forceful in any way, shape or form? The man may lose a piece of himself while I'm down there.