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when i have a baby...

i don't want anyone in the room besides H.

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  • I concur with you, my family would be welcome in the hospital but that is about it. 
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  • imagetherickson:
    I concur with you, my family would be welcome in the hospital but that is about it. 
     i don't even want them to come until after the baby is born. i want to be focused during labor... no distractions and no worrying about who will be offended when i kick them out. lol.
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  • It was only H and I in the room this time and it was wonderful.

    Next time I want to use a midwife and deliver at a birth center instead of the hospital.

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  • DH and my mom.  Everyone else can come in after the baby is out.
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  • imageCiaram22:

    It was only H and I in the room this time and it was wonderful.

    Next time I want to use a midwife and deliver at a birth center instead of the hospital.

    I want to do this or at home, but I'm scared.  I have 2 friends who did and everyone else got drugs and thinks it's crazy.  Did you deliver w/o any drugs?

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  • Just DH....I don't want anyone else in the room with us, though I wouldn't mind if others were at the hospital (but I'd want at least a little time with just the three of us before anyone else comes to see).
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  • imagesarack:
    imagetherickson:
    I concur with you, my family would be welcome in the hospital but that is about it. 
     i don't even want them to come until after the baby is born. i want to be focused during labor... no distractions and no worrying about who will be offended when i kick them out. lol.
    You could set up with the nurses that when you reach x stage, or what-have-you, that they ask visitors to leave... but that's not much help if you don't want distractions :)

    When the time comes i'll be delivering at a birthing center (or possibly at home, but probably not).  When i picture it, i don't picture anyone else there... but i hadn't really thought about it.

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  • Yep, only DH. Everyone else can be in the waiting room. Smile
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    imageCiaram22:

    It was only H and I in the room this time and it was wonderful.

    Next time I want to use a midwife and deliver at a birth center instead of the hospital.

    I want to do this or at home, but I'm scared.  I have 2 friends who did and everyone else got drugs and thinks it's crazy.  Did you deliver w/o any drugs?

    I did have an epidural. I'm hoping that I can do a water birth. I could have probably gone without the epidural had the nurse checked my progress before administering the cervidil. Because of that my contractions were one on top of the other with no breaks and I was like that for almost 2 hours before I caved and got the epidural.

    ETA: I don't think I could ever do a home birth. I have a friend who has had 2 already and she highly recommends it. Maybe when I have a house that is mine I would feel comfortable doing it. Right now because I rent I wouldn't feel comfortable doing that. Plus my apartment is tiny.


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  • DH and the doula. My opinion is, if you're not medical staff (doula counts) or directly involved in the creation of the baby, you don't need to be there; we'll call you when we're ready for you to visit. :P

    I don't even want people in the waiting room; knowing they're there would stress me the eff out.

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  • hopefully DH can handle it (he does not do well with blood, or hospitals at all. like, faints completely, doesn't do well.)

    only other person besides him would be my sister. 

  • DH and my mom.. his mom may be offended, but the mothers dynamics will bring stress for me
  • h and my mom. h thinks it's "not fair" that my mom gets to be in the room, and not his mom..but his mom didn't birth me. if his mom birthed me *also*, then it wouldn't be fair.
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  • What about the dr. Stick out tongue haha

    Pretty much for family it will be just DH.. absolutely no one else. If we can avoid it at all costs family won't even know we've gone in. 

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    h and my mom. h thinks it's "not fair" that my mom gets to be in the room, and not his mom..but his mom didn't birth me. if his mom birthed me *also*, then it wouldn't be fair.

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     I only want H to be in the room.  And yes, the doctor/midwife.

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  • i will probably ask my favorite photographer to be there too. i almost forgot. so H and photog.
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    What about the dr. Stick out tongue haha

    Pretty much for family it will be just DH.. absolutely no one else. If we can avoid it at all costs family won't even know we've gone in. 

    This, I would want to wait for things to settle down a little after the birth before we call the grandparents to let them know.  They all live too far to come for the birth, imo.

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  • At this stage in my life...only H and medical staff. Although, since H is terrible about photos (remembering to take AND taking good ones), maybe if there's someone I feel close enough to at that point to take pictures of baby being weighed, etc. But not of my nether regions, no pics of that! My mother stresses me the eff out, she'll have a fit but no way will she be allowed in there.
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  • the medical staff goes without saying...

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  • imagesarack:
    i will probably ask my favorite photographer to be there too. i almost forgot. so H and photog.

    No way!  DH wants cameras, video..I don't expect this to be a very pretty scene and I don't want any cameras AT ALL during the labor and delivery.  Pictures right after, sure.  During, NO WAY!

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  • I had about 15 people in the room with my birth. But that's because I had an emergency c-section, so lots of people saw my naked/exposed body, and I had no say.

    That being said, if all had gone according to plan, it was supposed to be just DH and I until after baby was born. 

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