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T&P again..

i was let go from my (main) job today. I have through the end of the month. there's no hard feelings...i knew it was coming. they need someone actually out in Cali to do the work and i've done all I can for them. still sucks for me though bc i was the main breadwinner in this family.

figuring out all my health benefits, etc going forward is going to be a biitch. H's coming is merging with another law firm in Jan and we have no clue how this will affect him. oh, and i need a kidney transplant...no big deal.

ugh...not a great day.

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Re: T&P again..

  • Oh hun, I'm so sorry.  Lots of vibes your way. 

    Hopefully things will be OK with your H's law firm merger too.  

  • T&Ps coming your way! Are you getting a severence package?  And yikes on a kidney transplant!  Maybe someone in your family is a match?
  • Oh my!!! Can't you get a break!?! I'm sorry. *~*~*~*~ vibes*~*~*~* that you get something else lined up ASAP.
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  • Oh my gosh. I am so sorry!! It just keeps piling on for you. Did they give you a few months to work it out at least??
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  • I'm so sorry bucks! I've been thinking of you guys and will continue to pray for you. When it rains it pours.
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  • oh hun I'm so sorry...T&P's are definitely with you.

    Did they say when you had to have your kidney transplant?  Like can you wait until the merge to see how things go?

    I really hope everything works out for you

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  • I am so so sorry. T&P for you. ((hugs))
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  • Oh no - I will definitely be thinking of you and your family.
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  • Hugs. Sorry you are dealing with so much, especially as a new homeowner. If you and Mr. B want to get away, Jess and I can always set up an awesome playdate with alcohol ;)
  • Thanks everyone.

    So I will work through the end of November and then i'll be done. The good news is that i found out that open enrollment for H's new company starts this month...so no wierd transfering from where i am now, to his current plan to his new plan. it will all just be normal and about the same price/less expensive. not sure about disability and stuff....i need to look into that for FMLA and all that fun stuff for when i have my surgery. i guess this really frees up my calendar to get the transplant (assuming i can find a donor).

    thanks for your thoughts and prayers. i'm doing ok with it suprisingly...i feel like it was totally out of my control and it just is what it is. not the best timing, but hey, at least H has his job for now and Bennett and my H are healthy. thats all i care about.

     

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  • oh my gosh i feel horrible for you. you have really put my own problems into perspective. thank god you will have health insurance. i am so sorry. can your h look for a second job or a higher paying job (haha i know in this economy yeah right.) i hope something amazing and unexpected is in store for you.
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  • so sorry to hear this news bucks. i wish you the best during this time. i hope everything works out sooner than later.
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  • Oh, I am so glad that the insurance won't be a problem. That's a really huge deal. Please let me know if there's anything at all I can do for you from over here. I'll be in Ohio for Thanksgiving. If you want a real life hug let me know!!
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  • I am so sorry you are having to go through all of this.  Lots of thoughts and prayers for you.
  • Oh Bucks... I am so sorry.  You guys are totally in my thoughts.
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