This is so embarrassing to speak out-loud so thank goodness for support from women who understanding what I'm going through but are not IRL.
part of my backstory: my StbX got a mild STD (warts) while I was pg with our first baby. I said he prob got them years before he met me and they just now appeared - which I believed (and actually is possible)
then tons other suspicious stuff happened over the next 6 years so now we are divorcing. While arguing about his behavior recently, I said that this STD was suspicious. His response was that he probably got it from me (because women can have it and not know) aside from the fact that I have only been with one other man in my life and found this hard to believe, I found this really accusation really hurtful.
I posted about this and many of you said for me to go out asap and get tested (in case I've picked something up from him) So I did
I requested that specific test and they checked my DNA to see if I have ever had it ......and the verdict : NEGATIVE
Looking at the report I feel like a proud student with straight As (in a sad, twisted sort of way).
every test was negative
I really dodged a bullet there.

Re: STD free!!!
Congrats! Great news!