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Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Re: S/O Love Language
My scores are:
Accepting Responsibility 11
Generally Repenting 5
Making Restitution 4
Requesting Forgiveness and Expressing Regret (both) 0
That's pretty accurate. I can hold on grudges pretty easily sometimes, and I feel apologies aren't genuine if they are only asking for forgiveness or regretting that they got caught.
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My scores are
Expressing Regret 8
Accepting Responsibility 7
Making Restitution 1
Genuinely Repenting 4
Requesting Forgiveness 0
I definitely agree with my results.
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Heh, mine's pretty linear...
7 -- Genuinely Repenting
6 -- Accepting Responsibility
5 -- Making Restitution
2 -- Expressing Regret
0 -- Asking for Forgiveness
Sounds about right to me! Ideal apologies, for me, should contain all of the first three in near-equal doses and a splash of the fourth.
The fifth, like one of the earlier replies mentioned that I'm too lazy to find out who said it right now, just comes across as SO insincere.
Requesting Forgiveness
my currently-reading shelf:
almost exactly the same as me....
Hmmm, maybe that's why we have the exact same wedding date but a year apart?
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This took a lot longer than the other one. Maybe i'm just tired.
Mine were:
Making restitution (i'm not surprised, since i really think the best approach is to learn from one's mistakes)
Expressing regret
Accepting responsibility is important to me, but it's best paired with the two above; genuine repentance is similarly ranked.
I feel like asking forgiveness is just asking for a favor after messing up. Big fat 0.
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